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Re: New to this site Need encouragement.

Post by kerisue » Mon Jun 20, 2011 01:40 am

Kidaboo- I lost a baby girl due to preeclampsia a year ago and it is the worst pain, the worst loss ever. I'm so sorry you had to experience that too (twice!) Before you try again I would definitely make a consultation appointment with a Maternal Fetal Medicine specialist/Perinatologist if you possibly can. And spend some time on this website researching and getting all your questions answered. That may help you feel slightly less stressed going into a next pregnancy. And when the loss of your Ky'mani gets to be too much- we're here for support too.

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Post by cmccaffrey » Sun Jun 19, 2011 07:28 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. I am also 25 and my husband and I lost our firstborn last October. We are just getting into our second pregnancy and I am also really scared. I want to know the same as Jean, have you seen any specialists? Have you been tested for any pre-existing conditions? I can't say anything really other than how very sorry I am for all that you have been through and that I know you will find some great support in these wonderful women on the PE forums.

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Post by jean » Sun Jun 19, 2011 07:09 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost our son due to HELLP and are trying a second time, but I am worried. Did you work with a perinatologist for your second pregnancy? Was your doctor watching more closely?

New to this site Need encouragement.

Post by kidaboo » Sun Jun 19, 2011 04:49 am

Hello to everyone,

I am 25yrs old and have lost two babies due to this disease. I am trying to be strong and not give up hope but it is so hard. My last was my baby girl Ky'Mani. I was due in two weeks when tragedy happened. My whole pregnancy everything was fine. One day out of the blue i got a really bad headache like i never felt before and was rushed to the hospital where they told me they could not hear her heart beat. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to give up but i don't think i can go through this again, it hurts so bad, and i know i would be stressed the whole time. Any suggestions, i would really appreciate them. Me and my husband wants to try again but i am scared. I don't want him to suffer because i'm afraid. Well hope to hear from you all soon.