Barbara, so sorry your are having a difficult time. Be gentle with yourself, you are strong and will always be a mommy to your Kai. Hugs!

I am so sorry Barbara. I hope the day passes as peacefully as possible for you. Thinking of you and Kai x

Sending you many (((HUGS))) Barbara. I so understand how you are feeling right now.

I'm so sorry for the loss and pain you feel at this time.I lost my baby boy,his name was Benjamin Spider(I used to sing itsy bitsy spider to him)obviously I associate spiders with him.It's crazy how fast time goes by and yet sometimes how very slow when you lose your baby.I hope friday you can do something that brings you some kind of peace and that honors both you and Kai.I will be thinking of you both this friday.xo

Barbara...you and Kai are in my thoughts. Wishing you peace. (((HUGS)))

Hugs to you, Barbara. I will be lighting a candle on Friday to remember the babies.

It is a hummingbird. And I have a hummingbird on Kai's gravestone also.
Keri, I'm so sorry about your recent loss, with Millie.
Thanks for sharing that about Millie and the hummingbird. It is nice for both of them to be "little hummingbirds"

Barbara, I'm so sorry about Kai. I bet he would have been a bright and happy little boy. Is that a hummingbird on your avatar pic? I associate the hummingbird with my lost little one too- it's on her grave stone and I have a necklace with a hummingbird charm too.

I'm a mess this week. I'm surprised at how much grief and sadness is there. He would have been 5 yrs old this friday.
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