by mommytomolly » Wed Feb 02, 2011 06:33 am
Your story is close to mine. I had Hellp with my daughter who was delivered at 37 weeks. She was fine but I spent the next week in the hospital with hellp. My biggest fear then and now 2 1/2 years later is that my husband will have to raise her on his own. We finally decided to have another one for the plan fact that I didn't want her to be an only child and I figured that when my grandmother had her children she probably had a higher risk of dying with just a normal pregnancy than I do now even with hellp. In December, we found out I was preg and everything seemed to be going good. I had the terrible morning sickness, tired, tender breast that I should have until this week. I had an ultrasound yesterday, and the baby has no heartbeat. This will be my secong miscarriage, I had one before my daughter, and I don't know if I can go through it again. I knew I had a higher risk of miscarriages because of hellp but you think how could I be unlucky enough to have problems with every pregnancy. After this loss I am seriously considering stopping at one child. I also feel cheated and envious. My best friend is pregnant with her second child and was due one month before me and although she been great I know I am going to have a hard time with it.
Your story is close to mine. I had Hellp with my daughter who was delivered at 37 weeks. She was fine but I spent the next week in the hospital with hellp. My biggest fear then and now 2 1/2 years later is that my husband will have to raise her on his own. We finally decided to have another one for the plan fact that I didn't want her to be an only child and I figured that when my grandmother had her children she probably had a higher risk of dying with just a normal pregnancy than I do now even with hellp. In December, we found out I was preg and everything seemed to be going good. I had the terrible morning sickness, tired, tender breast that I should have until this week. I had an ultrasound yesterday, and the baby has no heartbeat. This will be my secong miscarriage, I had one before my daughter, and I don't know if I can go through it again. I knew I had a higher risk of miscarriages because of hellp but you think how could I be unlucky enough to have problems with every pregnancy. After this loss I am seriously considering stopping at one child. I also feel cheated and envious. My best friend is pregnant with her second child and was due one month before me and although she been great I know I am going to have a hard time with it.
