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by wooleybear
Wed Mar 06, 2013 07:32 pm
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: coming up on almost a year of loss
Replies: 4
Views: 4276

coming up on almost a year of loss

Hi everyone, I haven't been on since September 2012. I got so busy with work and now that I have been having some down time and nearing the 1 year anniversary of loosing Soleil, my sadness has resurfaced. I feel I have been avoiding the thought of her because it hurts so much. I haven't even taken o...
by wooleybear
Tue Sep 18, 2012 09:19 am
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: Hi everyone
Replies: 1
Views: 1466

Re: Hi everyone

I understand your pain even though I didn't go through the whole NICU. I started swelling so bad a little after 3 months. I kept asking my doctor, when is this not normal? I wish I would of showed him a picture of what I looked like before I got pregnant so he could of seen how swollen my face was. ...
by wooleybear
Mon Sep 17, 2012 08:33 am
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: So alone in this
Replies: 2
Views: 1762

So alone in this

One of the other hardest parts of losing my baby girl is that I am so alone in this. I have no family here, they are in the next state over. I have friends and co workers but I don't have family or that intimate partner to help me through this. Soleil's dad is willing to talk to me and support me, b...
by wooleybear
Mon Sep 17, 2012 08:19 am
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: Back to Work
Replies: 5
Views: 2501

Re: Back to Work

So I started back to work, about a week in or so. The days the teachers had to be in with no students and we were setting up our rooms, I kept getting rushes of anxiety that I shouldn't be there, I should of been on maternity leave. I kept pushing on to get through the day. Since the kids have been ...
by wooleybear
Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:47 am
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: Back to Work
Replies: 5
Views: 2501

Back to Work

I am getting some anxiety going back to work in a week. I am a teacher and lost my sweet baby girl, Soleil, at the end of May this year. I of course didn't go back to work, school ended in late June. So I have been off work since the end of May and now school starts in a week. So many emotions are g...
by wooleybear
Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:38 am
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: Consumed by greif
Replies: 6
Views: 2611

Re: Consumed by greif

I am so sorry for your loss, I agree with another poster, definitely find your outlet on here and join a support group or see a therapist. I also liked self help books, and they aren't to make you move on at certain time, but they help you work through your emotions. I will list a book below, check ...
by wooleybear
Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:20 am
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: Bittersweet
Replies: 4
Views: 2132

Re: Bittersweet

i feel for you and hope you get through this pregnancy with lots of peace. my sudden loss was very recent so i am not on the block to start thinking about getting pregnant again, but it does scare me to death to do so. im sure we all experience these thoughts, you are not alone..... hugs and peace!
by wooleybear
Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:15 am
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: Recent loss and I just need some advice, encouragement
Replies: 7
Views: 3280

Re: Recent loss and I just need some advice, encouragement

Im so sorry for your loss, Angel is surely missed and is a beautiful angel in heaven. Everyone has different symptoms and Pre-Eclampsia means "Lightning". The symptoms come on so fast like lightning that there is little time to do anything about it sometimes. I had major swelling, my doc kept saying...
by wooleybear
Thu Aug 16, 2012 04:32 pm
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: My Friend had a Baby yesterday......
Replies: 9
Views: 3828

Re: My Friend had a Baby yesterday......

im so sorry for your loss. all my friends have kids it seems these days. i lost my first one, soleil, and have no others. most of them are a little older, like at least 2yrs and up. i do have one friend that has an 8 month old by now. it has been hard to be around my friends with kids, but i just tr...
by wooleybear
Thu Aug 16, 2012 04:24 pm
Forum: Grief and Loss
Topic: Autopsies
Replies: 4
Views: 2323

Re: Autopsies

im so sorry for your loss missgamecock. sometimes it just doesn't make sense. my doc said if i get pregnant again i may have to go on antibiotics the whole time. that seems so extreme to me. i think the infection took over because my placenta was so week from the pre-e. hopefully if i get pregnant a...

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