My only advice would be, consider getting a different Peri. From the beginning we had slight problems with my OB/Gyn when I was pregnant. These problems never went away (constant tardiness, brief answers, long waiting, etc) The longer I stayed with her, the more miserable I was. When your Peri walks out and leaves you in a room, that's a little weird!
Now, I have noticed most Peri's work best in emergency situations. I see the Medical Director at my Peri group, and he is brief and to the point. I live with it because I know he is good and I can be just as fast and efficient as he is (e.g. have all of my questions ready to go, etc) But I could see his approach not working for everyone, so there are other options. You may want to explore this. Your current OB may know the personalities in the group and may be able to refer you to one that you are more comfortable with.
DH, John (35)
Max, 1/20/03, 25 wks, 534g. (IUGR), severe PE