Hi all,
First, I would like to thank you for maintaining this incredibly helpful and informative forum. I have learned a ton from it.
I am writing because I am feeling a little discouraged. I have chronic hypertension and am now nearly 27 weeks pregnant. My BP has been great (on medication) throughout my pregnancy, but I know even if nothing is wrong it is likely to go up a little in the coming weeks. I am thankful, though, that that hasn't happened yet.
Throughout my pregnancy everyone has told me to make sure I monitor my BP closely, and I have. I have read about the signs and symptoms of preeclampsia and would certainly seek medical attention at the first sign of something wrong. I have encountered so many heartbreaking stories on this forum and elsewhere of mothers with PE or PIH losing their babies, and of course I am terrified of the same thing happening to me and would like to prevent it in any way I can. Since there is little evidence (from what I have read) that things like diet affect PE risk, I have assumed that my best chance if something does go wrong is to be well educated and well prepared.
But, will that really help? Sometimes it feels as though, with a disease that can apparently be so unpredictable and whose only cure is to have the baby, even "catching it early" may not be associated with better outcomes. Or am I wrong?
Surely at least one way it might help to be vigilant is that things like placental abruption can become deadly in a matter of hours, so being aware of the situation ASAP offers the best chance for survival? Is there anything else?
Maybe being educated about how urgent a situation PE is can help a mother advocate for herself if her doctor is not taking quick enough action? I just don't believe my doctor would not respond appropriately if something were wrong...
Just questioning whether the effort I put in to monitoring and educating myself is really worth the anxiety it causes, or whether it would be better to just accept that nothing I can do will really affect my outcomes in any way, and therefore not think, worry, or learn more about my risk. I'm sorry if I sound cynical...I would really like to know what you all think. What, really, are the benefits of being well prepared and well educated?
