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Re : it's su with a sad update...

Postby annegarrett » Wed Oct 19, 637994 1:47 am

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a baby in 86 and even now will look at my 22 year old and think how life might be different were he to have his sister right there. It's a huge loss. I am sorry to have you join our club. No matter how logical the decision was--the bottom line is no matter what--her challenges, the hole in her heart, etc., it's a loss. We get that. Please know you can come here anytime--anytime for months and even years and find people who will understand and support you. Take care and don't go away. This is the time when we all needed someone else to hold us. Sending hugs.

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Postby mrs. sagara » Tue Oct 18, 637994 8:31 pm

I can only reiterate what others have said here. There will be good days and bad days as well.
For example today is a "Blue" day for me. Your story brings back so many memories that I have tears in my eyes just thinking of what is lost to me and to all of the ladies in this forum.
May we find peace a day at a time.
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Re : it's su with a sad update...

Postby lucy » Sun Sep 25, 637994 5:56 pm

Su I am late responding but just wanted to send you many hugs, I am so sorry for your loss.

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Re : it's su with a sad update...

Postby bonnie » Mon Mar 16, 637992 12:00 am

Su, Last summer, I too was in the same position you're in now. More than 1 year later, there are still songs on the radio that I can't listen to and episodes of show's I cannot watch. I want to tell you that it gets easier as time goes on, but I'm still waiting. I hope that you can find peace in the coming days, months, years.

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Postby kathyc » Sun Mar 15, 637992 9:38 pm

I'm so sorry, Su.

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Re : it's su with a sad update...

Postby suleaf » Wed Mar 04, 637992 7:38 am

thank you all of you.... it's hard to know what to say but it feels good knowing you are all there supporting me...

each day is different. today i feel stronger but yesterday i sobbed and sobbed when i heard a certain song on the radio... some days i have a sense of peace, and some days i miss her...

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Postby celticepona » Wed Mar 04, 637992 4:58 am

Su. Sending you hugs. I am so sorry.

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Re : it's su with a sad update...

Postby kelly1972 » Thu Feb 20, 637992 3:52 pm


I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Mira. Words can't describe the pain I'm sure you're going through. You're in my thoughts.

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Re : it's su with a sad update...

Postby melissam » Mon Feb 10, 637992 4:48 pm

Oh Su,

I am so sorry. You and your sweet Mira are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.

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Re : it's su with a sad update...

Postby debbie78 » Mon Feb 10, 637992 12:40 pm

I am so, so sorry. I wish I could say more.

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