3 years

[wrennie]

HI Cassie, thanks for your words of encouragement. It helps so much to hear them. My heart goes out to you and your family. Thinking of you and your angel,

[joker]

Thinking of you and Kaitlyn.

[melissam]

Doesn't seem possible that it has been three years does it?

Sending you many hugs.

[rosemary]

Cassie...sending you hugs and remembering your sweet Kaitlyn today. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

[annoited]

thanks cassie for sending this out to us all and encouraging us. i lost my angel to pe on march 23rd of this year. i have been extremely strong because of my faith in God but for some reason i broke down last night... i turned 30 on wednesday and i had always thought i would be done having my kinds by the age of 30 and just grow with them but u know as they say man proposes and God disposes... i am yet to have a child.... but i know God's will for us is to multiply.
Thank you very much for the encouraging words....it's greatly appreciated.

[annes]

Hey Cassie, it's good to "see" you, thank you for sharing your journey with us, it gives hope for the future! Happy Angel Day Kaitlyn. I hope it is a peaceful one for you and your family.

[jana m]

thinking of you and your sweet little girl....

[4evermyangel]

Hugs and thanks...it helps to hear it from someone who has been there. I've had quite a few rough days lately and sometimes I think it is getting harder. It does help to hear that eventually the good will outweigh the bad.

[jsu_work]

Hugz...

[cassie05]

Today marks 3 years since my sweet little angel passed away, not from pre-e but from a blood clot in the umbilical cord that hemorhaged and ruptured, this was seen just 6 days prior to her death, but was ignored by my obs. It feels like it was only yesterday but also feels like an eternity since we lost Kaitlyn. I remember this day 3 years ago, I remember not feeling Kaitlyn move, getting on here after trying to "wake" her, I posted this http://www.preeclampsia.org/forum/viewt ... ms=kaitlyn and once I got that first response from Laura, I finally gave in and headed to drop off our son and head to the hospital where our worst fears had come true. And so we began our journey, our new lives as parents of an angel.

To those that are early in your journey as parents to an angel, you WILL get through. It will be a long, hard journey but you will get to where you are "ok" with your new life. You will never forget your angels, that little bit of emptyness will always be there, but you will learn from their short lives. You will have more days of happiness in your future, it may not seem like it now, but you will get there. Also know that there is no shame in seeking help from outside professionals. Its ok to have a hard time around pregnant women. Its ok to be jealous or angry. Its ok to cry. But remember God is in control, lean on Him and He will see you through. You will always have good and bad days and eventually, though never forgetting your angel, you will have more good than bad days. My prayers are with you all....