Life...Just going through the motions

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby suleaf » Fri Oct 17, 2008 09:39 pm

The video is beautiful.... I'm sad and touched and so sorry for your loss.

I wish I had more words but I feel so sad right now....

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby lisainnj » Fri Oct 17, 2008 09:07 pm

What a lovely, lovely little girl. Thank you for sharing Laila's video with us - so lovingly made. I am so sorry for your heartbreak.

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby rosemary » Fri Oct 17, 2008 07:08 pm

Nikii, I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Laila. Thank you for sharing her video, she was such a fighter and a beautiful little girl. My heart just breaks for you. I hope that we can offer you support and a place to share about your Laila. Please know that you are among those who do understand and truly care. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish you peace and healing.

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby for faith » Fri Oct 17, 2008 04:42 pm

Nikii - I am so sorry for the loss of your little girl, Laila. What a beautiful video, what an honor to her.

I lost my daughter in Jan04, she never made it home but lived in the NICU for a month, most of that time it looked like we would bring her home when she gained weight. This life after is definitely a new normal, but most don't get you aren't who you were before..... with time it isn't so raw, but it is hard. My daughter's name is Faith, so I see that a lot, it used to be really hard, but now it is my special reminder of her.

This is a great place for support and information. I wish you much peace in your journey.

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby keneke68 » Fri Oct 17, 2008 04:25 pm

Nikii, I am so sorry for your loss of precious Laila. What a beautiful name she has. It breaks my heart everytime a beautiful little angel is lost. Laila is so beautiful I sat here and cried as I watched her video. I am honored to have been given the privledge to watch the video of your precious baby girls life.

I have been down the road to infertility I know the heartaches each day brings. I also know the huge heartache of being a mommie to an angel. It has been almost three years for me that I lost my beautiful little girl Madison Alea and to this day I still walk through life like a zombie. I feel just like you I am so lost and devastated without her. And I can so relate about seeing my daughters name in print. My heart also breaks when I have been out and I hear someone call there child and there name happens to be Madison.

I am so sorry that I have to welcome you to this forum. You will find lots of support here. We understand how you feel. If ever you want to talk I am here. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sending you many (((((HUGS))))))

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby joker » Fri Oct 17, 2008 01:50 pm

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Laila. I'm glad you found us and hope you can find some comfort here.

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby rnprissy » Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:37 am

Thanks again for the long arms of support. Emma's dad.....she was beautiful. I feel like our stories are so similar. It's so hard to watch them fight for so long to lose the battle in the end. I can so relate to trying to put on a happy face for everyone when you will never be " back to normal". I appreciate the thoughts and compliments for my daughter and her name. I don't know about you all but whenever I see her name in print I just fill with sadness. I think of how far that name was suppose to go with her. The finality of the things and places I now see her name...kills me. I wish all of you peace and strength

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby annes » Fri Oct 17, 2008 11:44 am

I am so sorry about the loss of your daughter Laila, what a beautiful name! I know that I felt like I was just sleep-walking through life for the first year or so, with things gradually getting better. I hope you can find some comfort here. Anne

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby sam » Fri Oct 17, 2008 11:41 am

i am so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious daughter. You and laila are in my thoughts and prayers.
wishing you peace,comfort and strength at this sad time

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Re : Life...Just going through the motions

Postby neslo » Fri Oct 17, 2008 11:18 am

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Infertility is hard enough but a loss to go along with that is devastating. I will be thinking about you.


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