Sue, thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter Candace. It is a heartbreaking story and brought tears to my eyes. Her story is very similar to mine, I had severe preeclampsia and HELP in my first pregnancy, which led to a placental abruption and the loss of my baby girl. I survived, but I was very lucky to beat the odds. These diseases are awful and devastating.
I think its great that you and your family can channel your grief into something positive by taking part in Saving Grace. I think it is great to help out with awareness and help to support research to help find a cure. I too find it to be a therapeutic way to remember my baby girl.
In this holiday season, I wish your family peace and lots of love. take care of yourselves and those beautiful boys!