Sad Valentine's Day

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Re : Sad Valentine's Day

Postby blznbec » Fri Feb 12, 2010 11:36 pm

Heather and Leanne...amazing stories that truly say how amazing both you and your husbands must be.

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Re : Sad Valentine's Day

Postby rosemary » Sat Feb 13, 2010 02:49 pm

Heather...many...many hugs to you. My thoughts will be with you this weekend. Wishing you a peaceful weekend.

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Re : Sad Valentine's Day

Postby jean » Thu Apr 01, 2010 09:12 pm

Thank you for posting this. I feel such guilt for taking our baby off of his support. Even though I know he would have suffered if we hadn't, I'm just hurting so very badly. The LAST thing I would EVER want is to lose my baby, and yet we are the ones that gave the final word on it. :~( I tried counseling and it didn't help me. I am so devastated. I appreciate any kind words anyone could give on withdrawl of support. The days surrounding Valentine's Day is sad for us as well.

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Re : Sad Valentine's Day

Postby sam10 » Thu Apr 01, 2010 11:37 pm

Hi Heather,

Thank you for posting your story, you are speaking from my heart! I feel with you. I am so sorry for your loss!

I always felt that our son Henry suffered, even though he was sedated most of the time. He also pulled on his breathing tubes and other life supporting cables. He made the decision to leave us, so his suffering ended after only one week. But we were with him when he went.

I am still unable to write down my whole story. It's too hard.

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