Griffin's 4th Birthday

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Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby annes » Wed Jul 10, 638920 5:42 am

Well, it is here again, Griffin's Birthday. He would have been four today. Four is a big boy, not a baby anymore. Every year it is different, this year I feel sad and angry all at once. Not pretty. Dh and I are having trouble communicating with each other, and I am snapping at the kids :(. I just want to fast forward through the days until Monday (Sunday is Griffin's Angel Day), because I can feel that things are not going to get better.

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby kristina » Wed Jul 10, 638920 8:30 am

I'm sorry Anne - sending you a hug. I'll be thinking of you this weekend.

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby brianned5 » Wed Jul 10, 638920 8:43 am

I'm so sorry Anne. I know the Birthdays and Angel Days are so hard. My thoughts are with you and your family. I'm sending you big hugs and thinking about Griffin on his Birthday.

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby m » Wed Jul 10, 638920 1:15 pm

The first couple weeks of February were pretty rough for us this year. The days leading up to those important dates can be so painful. I would have liked to fast forward through those days, too. I hope the next few days will pass quickly for you.

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby raspbeari » Wed Jul 10, 638920 1:26 pm

I'm sorry Anne,
Kai's 4th birthday was not too long ago. I had a hard time, lots of pain and grief. It still happens every year for me. I think we miss them so terribly around these times.
Take it easy on yourself, it sounds like you are really grieving right now.((hugs))
And Happy Birthday to Griffin, and so sorry you had such a short time with him.

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby leeann34 » Thu Jul 11, 638920 6:37 am

I am so sorry. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby wrennie » Thu Jul 11, 638920 9:30 am

Happy Birthday Griffin! Anne hang in there, take some deep breaths, I hope you have a peaceful weekend...hugs!

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby rosemary » Thu Jul 11, 638920 11:40 am

Anne...many, many hugs. You and your sweet Griffin are in my thoughts today...(((HUGS)))

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby love_the_daschies » Thu Jul 11, 638920 7:43 pm

Hugs Anne. My thoughts are with you this weekend for Griffin's angel day. I haven't faced a birthday yet - but know it will be tough. Happy Birthday to Griffin.

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Re : Griffin's 4th Birthday

Postby brockner1 » Mon Jul 22, 638920 12:36 am

((HUGS)) You will be in my thoughts.

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