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Re : where's my little girlie?????

Postby amaara » Tue Mar 09, 2010 02:15 am

by amaara (156 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2010 02:15 am

I am so sorry. I wish I could tell you it gets better. They are always with us.

~~Amara
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Re : where's my little girlie?????

Postby raspbeari » Tue Mar 09, 2010 10:41 am

by raspbeari (486 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2010 10:41 am

I also have been and continue to need to be on zoloft. I'm not saying that you are like I was, but frankly I was a complete mess for a couple years, at least after my loss. I was depressed somewhat before my loss, so I think what was a problem for me, became a hundred times moreso after losing kai. I don't think I'm abnormal or anything though, it is a rare person that doesn't dip into despair over this.
I'm not sure what meds you couldn't take, I guess the ones for bipolar disorder they want people to get off of when pregnant? which sounds very difficult. Don't be afraid to go get some help.
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Re : where's my little girlie?????

Postby naomihope427 » Tue Mar 09, 2010 10:59 am

by naomihope427 (247 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2010 10:59 am

Thank you ladies so much for everything. If it wasn't for you all I don't know what id do, =).

I will have to ask my ob if I can be put back on the medicine or continue taking it with my next apt. I NEED to be on something, I can't do this "alone".

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Re : where's my little girlie?????

Postby annes » Tue Mar 09, 2010 01:14 pm

by annes (2527 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2010 01:14 pm

I agree with Caryn and Dara, get the help you need, because you have a lot to get through being pregnant again! It is very hard, and you are right, you should not have to do it alone. I felt like I took my pregnancy one day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time, and that helped, I broke it down into manageable pieces. HUGS.
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Re : where's my little girlie?????

Postby naomihope427 » Tue Mar 09, 2010 06:07 pm

by naomihope427 (247 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2010 06:07 pm

Thank you Anne & supporting ladies.

I do need more help, I am just am in a lot of shock, denial, sadness, full of emotions, scared. But I do know somehow things will work out..I hope.

I am quite a mess through it all and losing Naomi, so yes I definetely need more help than what I am getting which is frankly nothing really. I really really appreciate your ladies support it means so much to me! Thank you.
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