It is so unpredictable of how we feel. If we expect the worst, we often find ourselves dealing with it much better than expected. And sometimes we brace ourselves for a day or moment, and think we are ok, but then realize that it is much harder.
When it hits me hard, I don't try to escape the feelings, but always try to accept them and allow them to happen.
Creating something special on a day like this, is a wonderful idea to remember little Vincent.
I am thinking of your babies today.