Originally posted by AnneS
Jeanne, of course you are not a bad person, you are human! It is really hard to hear about other people's pregnancies and babies, especially when your loss is so fresh. I think it is natural to be happy for someone and wish the best for them, while at the same time wishing things could have turned out differently for you. You are not hoping something bad will happen to your friend and her baby. I totslly can related to the competitive friend thing, I think we all have that person in our lives. If she is not good for you right now, it is ok for you to be in one of your "off" periods. ((hugs)) take care of yourself.
Originally posted by Leeann34
I can relate to your story and believe me your feelings are completely normal. My co-worker at work announced her pregnancy to everyone in a meeting shortly after I lost my daughter. I broke down in tears and had to leave the meeting. In fact, I had to leave work. I cried all the way home while driving. It's heartbreaking to hear of someone else's pregnancy after loosing a child. I completley understand and no it's not bad that you feel that way, it's just honest feelings that you can't help but feel.
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