Kristy, I am so sorry for your loss and the way you, your husband and Cooper was treated. My husband and I had the SAME exact experience. After I got out of the hsopital and buried her 3 days later, no phone calls, I did get emails from friends though, noone came to our front door, just a few sympathy cards, no texts'....we were miserable and it hurt.....IT HURT for us to be done like that! How in the HECK can people be that upside down? Since then I have distanced myself from the ones' I was always there for but in my time of need they turned their back. I don't like being like this but I am bitter. That was our daughter, some of them it was their neice....I jsut can't get over how people can be! So yes, I can perfectly relate to you! The day after I had Darren and posted on here for the first time, I got SO much incredible support! I was touched. Know myself and all the other's on here is there for you. I am sorry you had to go through all this. Sometimes a person's true colors shine through. Hold the ones close to you, closer, family or friends but I have found family will be the ones to hurt you the most and hardest.