For Katlyne's birth day we had a small party with the NICU Nurses and doc's who were there with us while Katlyne was in the hospital. We had a balloon release (oh course, I went overboard and had a balloon for each day she was alive) and Ben read things very special to us thanking them for taking such good care of our daughter. We had cake and then followed the cake was a HUGE donation of lulliby CD,tapes, books, and players. Katlyne loved to listen to priase and worship music so we thought it would be nice to pass that along. The beanie Baby company donated 100 beanie babies in Katlynes honor also to the NICU....
For her angel date, Ben and I went to the garden where Katlyne passed away and just took our time praying. It was very quiet but I think it was better that way ......
I'm sure you will find the right way to deal with it weather you have a birthday party/angel party or just a few moments of slience.
I'm always around if you need to chat....
Hugging you tightly....
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