Jasmin, this is a tough one for sure and a personal one in terms of the answer. Before I had Aylah, I would only answer that I had an angel to someone when I felt comfort in talking with the person. If it was a passer by, so to speak, I would just say no...it felt awful. Then the questions kept coming when I got pregnant, is this your first? Well, no. This is when I was able to always say it was my second pregnancy and we lost our first. Now when the questions come, do you only have one, etc, I continue to stay true to Elodie. It is easier for me now, but it is a struggle especially going through it at the moment. It doesnt help when you have so many questions and are so unsure of the future.
(ironic how what once were ordinary questions, are now so loaded to each of us, so many people have no idea what they are really asking!)