Jean..we have almost similar situation. My son celebrated his birthday 2/1 (yesterday) . It was really hard. He was born at 31 weeks but died due to NEC after 8 days.
Sorry for all our losses. Prayers coming your way.
Mom to 6 year old. Born at 33 1/2 weeks after preeclampsia and abruptio placenta.
Angel boy -Michael- born 2/1/2010 at 31 weeks. Had pre eclampsia and hospital bedrest at 27 weeks. Died due to NEC. Forever loved and missed
Rainbow baby due Feb 2012. Hoping for a looooonnnnnnngggg uneventful pregnancy.