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His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby jean » Mon Jan 31, 2011 06:26 pm

by jean (675 Posts), Mon Jan 31, 2011 06:26 pm

Happy birthday, my sweet baby. Mommy so wishes she could be celebrating tomorrow instead of going to your grave. :~( I feel devastated without you here. Miss you and love you with all my heart.
Our first son was born and passed in Feb of 2010. Born at 29 weeks due to HELLP and passed due to NEC. We miss him every day. :~(

Our second son was born at 39 weeks gestation in Nov of 2011. No HELLP or pre-e! Took LDA starting at week 12 and went off of it at week 38!

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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby kerisue » Mon Jan 31, 2011 09:49 pm

by kerisue (623 Posts), Mon Jan 31, 2011 09:49 pm

I wish you were celebrating his birthday too. It's unfair in so many ways that you aren't. But "unfair" doesn't begin to touch it. I'll be thinking of you guys tomorrow.
Mama to Millie
born June 2010 @ 24 wks. gestation due to my severe PE and CHF
lived 25 days, loved and missed
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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby cmccaffrey » Mon Jan 31, 2011 10:24 pm

by cmccaffrey (458 Posts), Mon Jan 31, 2011 10:24 pm

Thinking and praying for you.
Christa (25) & J (26)
Mommy to:
Mason born 10.11.10 @ 30+3 wks due to Severe Pre-E. Only lived 2.5 days
Noah born 2.1.12 @ 38 weeks thanks to lots of doctors visits, LDA, Lovenox and no preeclampsia!

learn more about our story... http://tinyurl.com/7a979vy
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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby sam10 » Mon Jan 31, 2011 11:42 pm

by sam10 (1436 Posts), Mon Jan 31, 2011 11:42 pm

Will be thinking of you tomorrow! Happy Birthday little one.
~Julija (40)
MC 3/2009 and 3/2011
Henry (1/1/2010-1/7/2010) - forever loved and missed; severe PE with Hellp; partial placental abruption, classical c-section at 25.6 weeks
Matilda (Nov. 2012, born at 35.4 weeks) - severe PE


Our pain has been put into words, placed into empty cradles, to remember that all our babies lived, that they mattered and always will. - Field of Cradles http://www.fieldofcradles.org/
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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby jean » Tue Feb 01, 2011 08:27 am

by jean (675 Posts), Tue Feb 01, 2011 08:27 am

Thank you :~( I'm having a really hard day already, and it's barely even started yet.
Our first son was born and passed in Feb of 2010. Born at 29 weeks due to HELLP and passed due to NEC. We miss him every day. :~(

Our second son was born at 39 weeks gestation in Nov of 2011. No HELLP or pre-e! Took LDA starting at week 12 and went off of it at week 38!

http://findingtherainbowconnection.blogspot.com/
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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby trish9 » Tue Feb 01, 2011 08:49 am

by trish9 (74 Posts), Tue Feb 01, 2011 08:49 am

Thinking of you and your little boy. "hug"
Trish
Pre-eclampsia and HELLP at 23 weeks +2 days
My little love Alexander. Born and passed on January 3rd, 2010.
Underlying disorders: IgA nephropathy, chronic hypertension and Hashimoto's thyroiditis
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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby angieb » Tue Feb 01, 2011 09:42 am

by angieb (1192 Posts), Tue Feb 01, 2011 09:42 am

Big hugs to you. Thinking of you guys today.
Me (29) DH (30)
#1-Olivia Caetlyn-9-28-09-9-28-09, 23+2 wks, emergency classic c-section, class I HELLP, IUGR
#2- Lucas Oliver (rainbow baby)- April 2011, 36+2 wks, HELLP and pre-e free! (lovenox and LDA pregnancy)
#3-Matthew, late October 2012...mostly normal, 37 wks, (lovenox and LDA again)
My blog: http://www.butterflies-and-rainbows.blogspot.com/
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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby frogibe » Tue Feb 01, 2011 08:09 pm

by frogibe (327 Posts), Tue Feb 01, 2011 08:09 pm

It is so unfair. I am thinking of you on this day! Happy Birthday little one! I know my daughter is in heaven celebrating with your little one!
Jennifer(27) Chronic Hypertensive
mommy to Kelsie born 1-10-10 from severe pre-e and HELLP at 28wks.
grew her wings on 2-14-10 due to NEC.
and to Josephine born 8-4-11 at 35wks. due to low amniotic fluid, but PE and HELLP FREE!!!! I kicked PRE-E in the behind!!!!!
Surprise! We are expecting #3 in April 2013
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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby rosemary » Tue Feb 01, 2011 09:15 pm

by rosemary (2360 Posts), Tue Feb 01, 2011 09:15 pm

My thoughts and prayers are with you...and your sweet son. (((HUGS)))
Rosemary - 47 - Central, PA
Momma to Kayleigh 8/25/88 - 36 weeks
Elliott 8/29/04 - lost at 20 weeks due to severe PE/HELLP
Proud Grandma to Max Allen 10/19/10.
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Re: His "would have been first birthday" tomorrow

Postby claricemaala » Wed Feb 02, 2011 05:24 pm

by claricemaala (59 Posts), Wed Feb 02, 2011 05:24 pm

Jean..we have almost similar situation. My son celebrated his birthday 2/1 (yesterday) . It was really hard. He was born at 31 weeks but died due to NEC after 8 days.

Sorry for all our losses. Prayers coming your way.
Mom to 6 year old. Born at 33 1/2 weeks after preeclampsia and abruptio placenta.
Angel boy -Michael- born 2/1/2010 at 31 weeks. Had pre eclampsia and hospital bedrest at 27 weeks. Died due to NEC. Forever loved and missed
Rainbow baby due Feb 2012. Hoping for a looooonnnnnnngggg uneventful pregnancy.
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