No words can express the pain a mother has to endure after losing her baby. I am so sorry your little Andy did not make it.
Just a few days before I was diagnosed with PE, and I had no idea, I remember looking into the mirror and thinking, oh my, my face is sooo fat. I was so swollen that I could barely open my eyes.
MY thoughts are with you, your husband and family. Little Andy will always be in my thoughts. (hugs)