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Re: tough time with Mother's Day

Postby miamibunnie » Sat May 07, 2011 04:57 pm

by miamibunnie (510 Posts), Sat May 07, 2011 04:57 pm

I know the feeling...it was really hard for me to celebrate Mothers day last year! :(
Lisette 37 Hubby 37
Lisette 36 / Luis 36
1996 25 weeker due to Eclampsia with seizures daughter alive today 15 yrs old " Julyzah Caridad"
2010 23 weeker due to severe preeclampsia my angel left us

2011/27/July we beat preeclampsia and made it to 36.5 weeks 6lbs 1oz baby girl "Kendall Lauren " pe-free just bp started acting up.
Thanks to God, my doctor, Lovenox and Lda.
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Re: tough time with Mother's Day

Postby flori » Sat May 07, 2011 05:11 pm

by flori (225 Posts), Sat May 07, 2011 05:11 pm

I'm not too sure if Mother's Day is to blame or not, but yesterday I completely fell apart. I cried almost all evening. Up until then I had tried to stifle my tears and not think about things but I finally allowed myself to do so yesterday. I was left physically exhausted but somehow relieved. Today is more of the same. The guilt/loneliness/feelings of failure are all hitting me pretty hard again. In the middle of my tearfest the funeral home called to inform me that Gracie's death certificate is ready to be picked up. Get this, she said they're open tomorrow if I want to come by. I can't imagine a better way to spend my first Mother's Day.

My MIL is taking her mother to dinner and she invited me and dh. We will go, but I'm sure I'm going to burst into tears at some point during the meal.

(((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))) to all the mommies out there.
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Mommy to Gracie- born at 25 weeks 03/15/11, 11 inches, 1.1lbs, and absolutely beautiful. Became my sweet angel the next day.
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Re: tough time with Mother's Day

Postby Mouschin » Sun May 08, 2011 09:00 am

by Mouschin (6 Posts), Sun May 08, 2011 09:00 am

This is my first Mother's Day ever and my daughter is not here to celebrate it with me. She was born still 3 months ago today, so its a double whammy. I have found the days leading up to today, and today extrodinarily difficult. All of the TV commercials, stores and facebook posts are enough to send me to tears. Everyone says I am a mother, which I agree I am, but it feels incredibly hollow without my darling girl.
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Re: tough time with Mother's Day

Postby kerisue » Sun May 08, 2011 01:04 pm

by kerisue (623 Posts), Sun May 08, 2011 01:04 pm

I lit this candle for us today. Won't make us feel any better, but a small token anyway. It will stay lit for 48 hours from right now.

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/mes ... d=13302440
Mama to Millie
born June 2010 @ 24 wks. gestation due to my severe PE and CHF
lived 25 days, loved and missed
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Re: tough time with Mother's Day

Postby jean » Sun May 08, 2011 03:37 pm

by jean (675 Posts), Sun May 08, 2011 03:37 pm

Thank you kerisue *hugs*
Our first son was born and passed in Feb of 2010. Born at 29 weeks due to HELLP and passed due to NEC. We miss him every day. :~(

Our second son was born at 39 weeks gestation in Nov of 2011. No HELLP or pre-e! Took LDA starting at week 12 and went off of it at week 38!

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Re: tough time with Mother's Day

Postby rosemary » Sun May 08, 2011 07:09 pm

by rosemary (2360 Posts), Sun May 08, 2011 07:09 pm

Thinking of all of you today...and your precious little ones. Wishing you peace and healing. (((HUGS)))
Rosemary - 47 - Central, PA
Momma to Kayleigh 8/25/88 - 36 weeks
Elliott 8/29/04 - lost at 20 weeks due to severe PE/HELLP
Proud Grandma to Max Allen 10/19/10.
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