Another Rant From ME...Sorry

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Another Rant From ME...Sorry

Postby tinalowe » Tue Aug 24, 2004 08:11 pm

I played softball tonight in a tourney to raise money for our Rescue Squad (by the way I just want to say they are wonderful, they have no licensed EMT's and aren't supposed to transport seizure patient but did me b/c they didn't think I would make it if they hadn't...just had to put in a good word for them)...anyhow a girl I went to high school with is almost nine months pregnant...and SHE was PLAYING in 90 degree weather and running too. Now I don't wish any harm on her or her child, but I can't help getting depressed that someone would do that and their child be born healthy (which I pray hers is) but me who did everything I was told lost my angel. It is just sooo unfair. It actually crossed my mind to go knock some since into her!!!! I just wanted to ask her if she knew the kind of risk she was taking with her child!! I'm sorry maybe I am wrong for feeling this way, but I can't help it!! Thaks for "listening" and putting up with me you guys!!

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Re : Another Rant From ME...Sorry

Postby angelkat » Tue Aug 24, 2004 08:28 pm

Tina...
After the loss of a child, our eyes are then opened wide. What might not have even "fazed" us before now puts a stone in our hearts and stomach. Many many women do not even think about what harm they can do or what they can prevent. We on the other hand no matter how hard we tried could not prevent PE from happening. Most of us never even heard of it until it happens to us...

Sending you a HUGE HUG....Vent away, that's why we are here!. It always helps to get it off the chest.

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Re : Another Rant From ME...Sorry

Postby denise » Wed Aug 25, 2004 06:12 am

Lots of hugs to you Tina!

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Re : Another Rant From ME...Sorry

Postby for faith » Wed Aug 25, 2004 09:34 am

HUGS Tina ~ I second what T said. I have so many stories like that where I want to scream some sense into these moms, which of course we want everything to be fine. Sometime life is so hard. That is great you were playing to raise money for a good cause. Vent anytime, I know I do.

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Re : Another Rant From ME...Sorry

Postby sweetiesuzy » Thu Aug 26, 2004 06:55 pm

Gosh - I can totally relate. The other day I was going shopping and there was a woman outside of the store who was pretty far along in her pregnancy puffing away on a ciggarette! I wanted to grab her and yell DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE SUFFACATING YOUR BABY AND RISKING YOUR BABYS LIFE!! I was so mad. It is so hard when people just don't seem to care or know how great they have it.

Please vent anytime...

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Re : Another Rant From ME...Sorry

Postby julie f » Fri Aug 27, 2004 07:17 pm

Oh Tina, I can relate... We'll never have that blissful ignorance that most women are able to enjoy...

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Re : Another Rant From ME...Sorry

Postby tinalowe » Fri Aug 27, 2004 07:41 pm

It really is nice to have you all! I think I might would go crazy if I didn't! lol

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Re : Another Rant From ME...Sorry

Postby e_allen » Tue Aug 31, 2004 01:15 am

Tina i totally know how you feel. i have many times asked myself why when so many others have fine pregnancies. some women dont even want their babies and get them!

someone i know used drugs through out her pregnancy and after her daughter was born and still now. but her daughter is alive and healthy, shes about a year and a half now... i'd never wish this pain on anyone but i often wonder why...



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