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Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby angelkat » Fri Aug 27, 2004 08:27 pm

by angelkat (3423 Posts), Fri Aug 27, 2004 08:27 pm

Not sure how we are going to handle this upcoming Labor day weekend with taking Casey to Katlyne's grave. I haven't been to Indiana since christmas due to being preg with Casey and not wanting to travel 7 hours away from my doctors.

But it's more than time to pack up and get out to the grave site. I need to replace the summer flowers with fall ones along with the halloween things. Just praying that I can handle it all.....

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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby kim » Fri Aug 27, 2004 08:51 pm

by kim (555 Posts), Fri Aug 27, 2004 08:51 pm

You are such a strong wonderful person, and I bet you are the BEST nurse in the world.

My thought is that Katlyne would be happy to know that Casey visited her resting place. I am sure your angel is watching over you both now.

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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby tinalowe » Fri Aug 27, 2004 10:19 pm

by tinalowe (288 Posts), Fri Aug 27, 2004 10:19 pm

T--Sending you big hugs!! I know it must be hard. but I agree with Kim! I think Katlyne will be happy knowing her little brother visited her and I am sure she will be smiling down!

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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby julie f » Fri Aug 27, 2004 10:32 pm

by julie f (7993 Posts), Fri Aug 27, 2004 10:32 pm

T,

Sending you lots of prayers for comfort and strength. I know Miss Katlyne is smiling down on you and her new brother Casey...

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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby for faith » Sat Aug 28, 2004 00:13 am

by for faith (1749 Posts), Sat Aug 28, 2004 00:13 am

T ~ Also sending you lots of hugs and prayers. I know that Katlyne is smiling down on all of you and is so happy to be a big sister. Sending thoughts of strength.

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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby mom2tori » Sat Aug 28, 2004 05:59 am

by mom2tori (3842 Posts), Sat Aug 28, 2004 05:59 am

T- It was always so hard for me to visit my son's grave, now it is important for me to take my daughter there often. I am fortunate enough to live very close to the cemetary so it is easy to just go home if being there is too rough. Now that I have taken my daughter there several times it is easier for me to go there because my daughter is so happy there, she loves to smell the flowers and play with the trucks that we have taken out there and she knows that they are Dominic's ( my son ) and that she can not take them home, she even asks to go there sometimes. I hope that Casey is a comfort for you when you get to the gravesite and I hope seeing it through Casey's eyes gives you a new outlook on visits. I will be praying that you have a safe trip and that your visit is as pleasant as it can be. God be with you.
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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby mada » Sat Aug 28, 2004 07:23 am

by mada (4081 Posts), Sat Aug 28, 2004 07:23 am

T~
Hugs and prayers for you and your family. Your angel will be so happy to see her little brother honoring her with the rest of her family!!

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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby josiah1112 » Sat Aug 28, 2004 07:42 pm

by josiah1112 (1368 Posts), Sat Aug 28, 2004 07:42 pm

Sometimes gearing up for the event is actually harder
than the event itself. I hope your trip is nice and peaceful.

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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby mintmommy » Sat Aug 28, 2004 11:31 pm

by mintmommy (327 Posts), Sat Aug 28, 2004 11:31 pm

I admire you deeply. I don't know how I would handle it in your place, but if, whenever, and if it ever happens to me, I will definitely think of you as an example to be able to find strength . . .



XOXO

Keeping you all in my prayers every night.

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Re : Taking Casey to Katlyne grave.....

Postby 5thtymachrm » Sun Aug 29, 2004 08:06 am

by 5thtymachrm (909 Posts), Sun Aug 29, 2004 08:06 am

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}

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