T- It was always so hard for me to visit my son's grave, now it is important for me to take my daughter there often. I am fortunate enough to live very close to the cemetary so it is easy to just go home if being there is too rough. Now that I have taken my daughter there several times it is easier for me to go there because my daughter is so happy there, she loves to smell the flowers and play with the trucks that we have taken out there and she knows that they are Dominic's ( my son ) and that she can not take them home, she even asks to go there sometimes. I hope that Casey is a comfort for you when you get to the gravesite and I hope seeing it through Casey's eyes gives you a new outlook on visits. I will be praying that you have a safe trip and that your visit is as pleasant as it can be. God be with you.