Due date coming up...

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Due date coming up...

Postby danielleberry » Mon Oct 25, 2004 11:15 am

Hello Ladies,

It was so hard for me to get out of bed this morning, I was thinking that tommorrow my husband and I should be parents. Kathrine was supposed to be here with us tommorrow and I'm so sad and I just want to cry. I think about her all the time and wish for her to be here everyday. I don't know how I make it through some days, but I do. I always think of what traits she would have of mine or if she would have patience like her father. I would give everything I have just to hear her laugh and just to have her look at me. I try to be so strong and think to myself that she is safe and playing with all of our little angels.

I want to thank everyone for letting share my daughter with all of you. I would be more lost then ever if I didn't find the site.

Thank you for caring

Danielle
Kathrine - 31 wks PPE
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Re : Due date coming up...

Postby julie f » Mon Oct 25, 2004 11:35 am

Danielle,

There are just no words I can say to make this time any easier... Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Much love to you and your Dh,

Julie (27)
Zachary James, 7/22/03-7/27/03, born at 26wks - severe pe

Miracle in progress... #2 is due February 2005!!!

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Re : Due date coming up...

Postby heatherbbb » Mon Oct 25, 2004 11:36 am

Danielle,

Dates like these are always hard. They remind us of all we've lost, especially our lost expectations and dreams. I dreaded my son's first birthday for weeks before. But like you said, some how we get through. It is nice to think that all of our precious little angels may be playing together. Sending you lot's of hugs and my best wishes.

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Re : Due date coming up...

Postby mom2tori » Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:29 am

Danielle, I wish I had some profound words of comfort and wisdom for you to help you through another rough day, but I don't. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Alissa mommy to:
Dominic 9/10/97-9/11/97
Victoria 1/8/02
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Re : Due date coming up...

Postby kdreher » Mon Oct 25, 2004 01:00 pm

Danielle,
I am so sorry that you are hurting. I can only say that time will heal your sorrow a little bit. It has been 9 1/2 years since I lost my Tyler and there are different times birth,death, mother's day, etc. where I get upset, but I try to be strong.

Sending lots of hugs and support for you during this time.

Kris (35)
DH, Tom (34)
My Angel Tyler 3-9-95 to 3-23-95 (26 wks severe pe/HELLP)
Hoping for a little miracle in 2005!

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Re : Due date coming up...

Postby for faith » Mon Oct 25, 2004 01:30 pm

Sending lots of prayers and hugs to you. I wish there was something I could say to help, but as we all know there is nothing. My thoughts are with you. I know how hard the due date is. HUGS

Jill
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Tyler - 4 (36 wks, PIH/mild PE))
Angel baby - 1/20/03 (11 wks)
Faith Kristine - 1/5/04-1/30/04 (30 weeks due to severe PE, passed due to NEC/Sepsis (preemie complications))
OUR LITTLE MIRACLE due 6/5/05

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Re : Due date coming up...

Postby space_coaster » Mon Oct 25, 2004 03:14 pm

((((Hugs)))) to you, Danielle, as you think of your precious Kathrine today. My Michelle would have been two months old today if she had lived, and I wonder also how big she would be now, whether she'd be crying a lot, if she'd recognize me when I walked into the NICU and stood by her bedside.

I do hope Kathrine and Michelle and all the other little angels are playing together somewhere and sending us their angel kisses, telling us not to cry for them because they are safe and happy.

Jocelyn (36)
Mommy to Michelle Elizabeth, 8/25-9/1/04, 24w1d, 1 lb 3 oz, severe PE/HELLP syndrome

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Re : Due date coming up...

Postby sweetiesuzy » Mon Oct 25, 2004 07:29 pm

Hugs & love.

Suzanna

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