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Postby celticepona » Thu Nov 04, 2004 07:35 am

Just wanted to tell you ladies:

I clicked on Angelkats link to Kaitlyn's tribute....I had to stop it after 30 seconds because I was sobbing. To all mothers who have endured a loss...god bless you all, you are all strong women beyond comprehension.

DD Emily born 4-01-04 at 37 weeks due to severe PE/Eclampsia. Currently Hypertensive and still on medication.
http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/e/emilyfionaspage/
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Re : bless you all

Postby kdreher » Thu Nov 04, 2004 07:59 am

Thank you so much for the kinds words. I am one of those who lost her son. It has been 9 1/2 years and the pain never goes away but you learn to live with it somehow. It is people like you who say a few words that make it all the more bearable.

Kris (35)
DH, Tom (34)
My Angel Tyler 3-9-95 to 3-23-95 (26 wks severe pe/HELLP)
Hoping for a little miracle in 2005!

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Re : bless you all

Postby angelkat » Thu Nov 04, 2004 09:31 am

Thank you for thanking the time to look at Kat's tribute. It's something that is so very dear to our family hearts. When the funeral home asked us to send in a song and pictures we had no idea on what impact Katlyne's tribute was going to have on us and on the people who view it. It has won a few "prizes" for the company and also for the editor.

Thank you for your kind words and thoughts...

Hugs
~T
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Drew(14)PE 37 wks
Ky (12)PE 34 wks
~i~ Katlyne(12/9/02-04/02/03)25 wks
Casey - 34wks Born 7/29/04
Katlyne's Tribute Site
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Re : bless you all

Postby for faith » Thu Nov 04, 2004 09:42 am

Thank you so much for your thougths, I lost my daughter earlier this year. Each day is a challenge, but your kind words do help, thank you.

Jill
mommy to:
Tyler - 4 (36 wks, PIH/mild PE))
Angel baby - 1/20/03 (11 wks)
Faith Kristine - 1/5/04-1/30/04 (30 weeks due to severe PE, passed due to NEC/Sepsis (preemie complications))
OUR LITTLE MIRACLE due 6/5/05

trying for #2 to share our lives with since 09/02
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Re : bless you all

Postby josiah1112 » Thu Nov 04, 2004 03:38 pm

Thanks for the blessing! Losing a baby is devastating and
it is totally heart breaking to not have any guarantees
on a future pregnancy..

Gloria mom to Josiah 11/12/03- 12/4/03 @ 26wks pre e
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Re : bless you all

Postby space_coaster » Fri Nov 05, 2004 05:22 pm

Thank you for your kindness. I lost my daughter just over two months ago and my heart still feels like it's made of lead. I am hopeful for a healthy baby in the future, but terrified of repeating this horrible experience at the same time.

Your Emily is beautiful.

Jocelyn (36)
Mommy to Michelle Elizabeth, 8/25-9/1/04, 24w1d, 1 lb 3 oz, severe PE/HELLP syndrome

Michelle's memorial page: http://www.geocities.com/jfiorello68
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Re : bless you all

Postby sam » Fri Nov 05, 2004 05:43 pm

Thankyou, for giving us support, and heartfelt kindness. It means alot to us all.

Your emily is just adorable.

best wishes to you and yours

xxxxxxxxxxx

sam
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severe atypical PE/class 1 HELLP @ 27wks
13th oct 2003
mummy to angel jake
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Re : bless you all

Postby forlogan » Wed Nov 10, 2004 05:21 pm

Amy,
Thank you for sharing your blessings. I, too, have been thinking of those moms who not only have had to lose a child, as I have, but to have to watch them go after fighting for their precious lives. Sometimes I feel so guilty for feeling thankful for not having to endure that time in the NICU. As much as I wanted to deliver my son alive, I don't think I could've watched him slip away. My parents have a beautiful poem framed that they received after my aunt passed away and I would like to share it with all of you. I dedicate this to all the mothers who have lost a child....

May I Go Now?

May I go now?
Don't you think the time is right?
May I say good-bye to pain-filled days
and endless lonely nights?
I've lived my life and done my best,
an example tried to be,
so can I take that step beyond
and set my spirit free?

I didn't want to go at first.
I fought with all my might!
But something seems to draw me now
to a warm and loving light.

I want to go! I really do!
It's difficult to stay.
But I will try as best I can
to live just one more day...
To give you time to care for me
and share your love and fears.
I know you're sad and are afraid
because I see your tears.

I'll not be far, I promise that,
and hope you'll always know
that my spirit will be close to you
wherever you may go.

Thank you so for loving me.
You know I loved you too.
That's why it's hard to say good-bye
and end this life with you.
So hold me now, just one more time,
and let me hear you say,
because you care so much for me,
You'll let me go today.

...Anonymous

Dee (31)
DH Bryan (32)
Mom & Dad to:
Talia - 7 (full term, no complications) 1-31-97
Logan - (Stillborn at 25w due to severe PE) 5-16-04 and 4 little Angels in Heaven
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Re : bless you all

Postby mandj107 » Sat Nov 13, 2004 10:26 am

Thank you for your compassion, and Dee, thank you for sharing the poem. I lost my son just over a month ago, and I will never be the same. We are blessed to have people like you who acknowledge the pain so many of us are living with.

Julie W.

Nathan 9/29/04 - 10/11/04, 28 wks PE
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Re : bless you all

Postby rachel » Sat Nov 13, 2004 12:40 am

Thank you so much for your kind words. The hurt and the pain is unbelievable, but kind support makes the days so much easier.

Rachel
Mommy to Kailee - born at 28 weeks
1lb. 13 oz.
Emilee Renee - stillborn 11/3/04
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