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Are you pregnant again after having preeclampsia once already in a previous pregnancy? Post your thoughts/concerns here - there are others who share your feelings. This is also the home of our Bedrest Buddies Support group.
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Re : Sad

Postby froggie89 » Sun Sep 01, 637991 1:27 pm

I am sooo sorry for your loss and all that you are going through. I'll keep you in thought and prayer. Take care. Big hugs to you..

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Re : Sad

Postby cindyh27 » Fri Aug 09, 637991 1:36 pm

Wendy ((hugs)) I'm so sorry for your loss... keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers...

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Re : Sad

Postby jenn » Sat Jul 27, 637991 9:35 pm

Wendy,
Add me too, I'm so sorry. Many hugs to you!!!

I too miscarried, and did it naturally as well.
I'm not sorry I chose that method..but it was intense.
I ended up in the ER, blood loss and intense pain control (I won't lie and say it's cake).
Keep in mind everyone's body and experiance is different.
If you need to talk or ask any questions- email me, I'm always available.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Jenn

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Re : Sad

Postby lany » Sat Jul 27, 637991 5:28 pm

I wanted to chime in here and say how sorry I am for your loss. Please be kind to yourself right now.

Take care

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Re : Sad

Postby blythe » Sat Jul 27, 637991 8:10 am

Wendy, ((hugs)), I'm so sorry.

You sound like me, though - didn't realize that I really wanted another baby until I miscarried. Now I have Chance [:)].

If you want to avoid a D&C, you probably will. I know there are women here who have needed a D&C because of hemorrhage or "retained products of conception", but my understanding is that's actually pretty rare. We're a community of rare, though, so keep that in mind [;)].

If you want a D&C for emotional reasons that is absolutely valid and your doctor should help you arrange the surgery. Otherwise, your body should (most likely) let the baby go naturally.

One extra thought - after my D&C I was told to wait 2-3 months minimum before trying to get pregnant again. So I conceived Storm 3 months later. My third miscarriage happened naturally and I conceived Chance 10 days later. Give yourself time to grieve this baby, though - don't rush into getting pregnant again unless you're ready.

If you're a google freak like me, google "expectant management" (medical jargon for "wait and see") vs. "medical management" [misoprostol (pills) or D&C (surgery)]. Here's one:
http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/full/322/7298/1343

((hugs)) again.

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Re : Sad

Postby alaskamommy » Fri Jul 26, 637991 12:48 pm

Wendy,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you are blessed again with another pregnancy very soon, and that you get lots of hugs and TLC from your boys this weekend.

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Re : Sad

Postby zoel » Fri Jul 26, 637991 12:22 pm

HUGS, so sorry, take care, Zoe

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Re : Sad

Postby celticepona » Fri Apr 28, 637989 1:39 am

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Re : Sad

Postby kris21225 » Fri Apr 28, 637989 12:15 am

I'm so sorry.

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Re : Sad

Postby catherinesmom » Thu Apr 27, 637989 10:45 pm

Wendy,
I'm so very very sorry for your loss!! You'll be in my prayers.


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