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Zealot here...

Postby akemt » Tue Mar 09, 2004 05:39 pm

by akemt (4961 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2004 05:39 pm

Well, I've sent another poor pg lady off to the doctor's office. LOL On baby center she said she was really swollen and had been having a headache all day. So I asked if she had had any visual disturbances or a racing/pounding heart (just probing, not wanting to send someone to the dr and have them be normal, ya know). She has been having a racing pulse and said she felt like she'd been running up stairs all day. I honestly don't know how seriously she took me though she did log off and say she would call the dr (hopefully go in) after eating dinner. I hate the "I'm a zealot" feeling...LOL And, so many people say my BP was fine a month ago. Yah, and that has how much bearing on today? Sorry, a bit worked up I guess.[;)] So, do you ladies feel like you bring up preeclampsia any time pregnancy comes into a conversation? I swear it seems like I do. And, what do you tell people?

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Re : Zealot here...

Postby mada » Tue Mar 09, 2004 06:14 pm

by mada (4081 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2004 06:14 pm

I swear whenever I am talking to a friend who tells me about someone who is prego and is very swollen, or has other symptoms, I get right up on my soapbox. People think I am obsessed, but the way I look at it; they can all think I am a freak mama, if I help someone that's all that matters!! So you go girl!!!

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Re : Zealot here...

Postby sherry fisher » Tue Mar 09, 2004 06:45 pm

by sherry fisher (384 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2004 06:45 pm

I am the exact same way! As soon as someone mentions something about BP's I am all over them about the symptoms to watch for, etc! My family has called me on occation about my problems and symptoms because so and so's daughter/wife/neice is pregnant and is having some problems. Like I am an Nope, girls, not just you, I am the same way!

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Re : Zealot here...

Postby sonja » Tue Mar 09, 2004 07:49 pm

by sonja (5658 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2004 07:49 pm

I was following a girl on one of the WebMD boards who was having problems with pre-e at the end of her pregnancy - it did not seem like she or her OB were taking it that seriously - I kept trying to get her to check out things over here - it is so much more persuasive to get your info from you ladies. She ended up okay thank goodness. I hope your gal is okay too!

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Re : Zealot here...

Postby deerhart » Tue Mar 09, 2004 09:57 pm

by deerhart (3282 Posts), Tue Mar 09, 2004 09:57 pm

Don't be afraid to be a zealot. I like to hang out on Ivillage everyone once in awhile, especially when I was pregnant. I ran into a lady in one of the chats that was a month ahead of me and was asking people about headaches and swelling etc.. and of course I started quizing her.
She did end up on bedrest from calling and seeing her doctor after chatting with me, and she ended up delivering 8-10 weeks early as her preeclampsia got worse.
It was nice to know that relating my experiences with the condition allowed someone else to see they weren't being paranoid, nor what they were feeling was normal in pregnancy and thus they seeked out help. In the long run, if telling people my story allows just 1 person to realize what may be happening to them and helps them to get the care they need, then it just may all have been worth it!


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Re : Zealot here...

Postby suzanne » Wed Mar 10, 2004 05:09 am

by suzanne (114 Posts), Wed Mar 10, 2004 05:09 am

I do often find myself talking to pregnant women about Pre-e. I forwarded the info email I got from this org. to a lot of my friends, and the reaction was strange----most felt it was alarmist, and asked me things like "wasn't that a little scary to send people?" It's like people only want to hear the positive about pregnancy. I think a lot of people have some fear of something like being "jinxed"---they think if they don't think about it, it won't happen. I have to guard myself sometimes against being TOO negative, but it's just so scary to think of people just not even knowing the signs of pre-e and maybe ignoring them. When I first got pregnant this time, my best friend (who has had 4 kids, all without any pain medication and without ANY pregnancy problems) got sick of hearing my worries and said I just was a pessimist. When I started having the BP problems early on, she was almost in denial. Oh, well. I WISH I could be less of a worrier about pregnancy, but I hope I do help others sometimes without scaring them too much!

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Re : Zealot here...

Postby pugmommy7 » Wed Mar 10, 2004 08:17 pm

by pugmommy7 (311 Posts), Wed Mar 10, 2004 08:17 pm

You could have saved her life! Bravo!!!

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Postby mintmommy » Thu Mar 11, 2004 05:20 pm

by mintmommy (327 Posts), Thu Mar 11, 2004 05:20 pm

Me too!

I always bring it up. Its like, people ask me how my baby is doing and I tell them what happened and that I am worried about this pregnancy, too.

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Re : Zealot here...

Postby annegarrett » Thu Mar 11, 2004 05:54 pm

by annegarrett (2525 Posts), Thu Mar 11, 2004 05:54 pm

What do y'all like better for a t-shirt? HIP Mama? or PZ (on the back it would say "Preeclampsia Zealot" or "Ask me about Preeclampsia"

(HIP Mama stands for Hypertension in Pregnancy)

I can't decide--they are both so witty. [;)]

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Re : Zealot here...

Postby mada » Thu Mar 11, 2004 05:57 pm

by mada (4081 Posts), Thu Mar 11, 2004 05:57 pm

Anne, I like both too!! I want both!!! That's a hard choice!!!

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