I just wanted to give a little success story you could share with your friend. The people we bought our house from had been trying, unsuccessfully, for over 8 years to get pregnant and their little (well, actually fairly big) daughter was born about a month after we closed. I beleive they used IVF also.
Catherine (22), Moderator (pregnant again)
DH Britton (27)
Emma Margaret (03/02/03) 37 weeks from PIH & oligo
Baby #2 due August 11, 2004