ever just want to be normal

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Re : ever just want to be normal

Postby sandy » Sat Mar 27, 2004 07:27 am

I do feel like I wish it could be as easy as most people I've seen pregnant.

You know; BAM! you're pregnant, you look all cute getting bigger and you spend time singing to your belly and decorating the nursery and shopping for things and having an appetite to eat way too much and you get to like 39 weeks and think, "hey, I'm getting a little big, baby will be here soon" and then at like 41 weeks you're like, "okay, I'm getting a little too big", and that's your only complaint, and then at 42 weeks, your water breaks and you go to the hospital and you have the baby and then you get to hold the baby right away and the baby gets to stay in your room right next to you and then you go home as a family when you get discharged from the hospital...and then you have the pictures and video of coming home as a family and the baby breastfeeds with no problem...It's just so natural and easy for some people and I wish it were for me, too!

~Sandy/DD born via emergency C at 35 wks/1 day June '03 due to Severe PE/class III HELLP/chronic HBP/asthma

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Re : ever just want to be normal

Postby meljoi » Sat Mar 27, 2004 07:02 am

Where my friends got jealous was in the weight loss.....
My pre-preg weight was 105....
I delivered at 160.....I was SO incredibly swollen.
No definition from my knees to my ankles.
My friends were quite jealous that I was 112lbs two weeks after
Peyton's birth. It was pure water weight.
I would have been happier to have the pregnancy and birth to have gone smoother and had to lose the baby weight the natural way......

Melissa Joi 32
DH Jeremy 43
mama to Peyton John 12/04/00
2nd babe due 12/04

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Re : ever just want to be normal

Postby lauras » Sat Mar 27, 2004 06:35 am

I totally understand. I have a lot of friends prego right now, too, and they are all blissfully unaware, unconcerned and uncomplicated. Me, I'm a paranoid wreck. I wish I had the confidence to start buying clothes at 6 wks like them.

Isabella caught up to full term babies so fast that even if this one is a preemie, I'll look forward to the time when they'll both be just like everyone else's kids.

Hang in there!
Wishing you the best. . .

Laura 32
DH 32
Isabella 11/25/01 - 30 wks -severe pe
Hoping for another girl 8/24/04

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Re : ever just want to be normal

Postby sherry fisher » Sat Mar 27, 2004 04:15 am

ABSOULUTELY, to answer your question, loudly!!!

Sherry Fisher (28)
DH: Bill (35)
Proud Mama to:
#1) Alex 1/1/94-PE
#2) Abbie 12/17/97-PIH
#3 Will 08/03/02-PP PE
#4) EDD: 4/27/04 - Allyson Mae
Pregnancy Updates, ultrasound pictures, and the countdown: http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/b/babyfish4/

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ever just want to be normal

Postby 3preemiekidz » Fri Mar 26, 2004 09:43 pm

People I talk to get so jealous when I tell them I've had so many ultrasounds and get to hear the baby all the time. The thing is, I would trade all of it if it meant I could just have a normal pregnancy. I went in for a routine appt last week and ended up admitted to the hospital because my BP was elevated. They didn't even bother to recheck it, to paranoid with me as a patient. I was so hoping that this pregnancy would go more smoothly and I wouldn't have to worry everyone again. Anyone else feel like they are just a burden to everyone and feel cheated from having that "normal" pregnancy?

Mom to Audri 3,
Ezra 2,
Liya 1
and #4 EDD 8/1/04
born at 35, 29 and 31 weeks due to Pre-e/HELLP

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