by 3preemiekidz (84 Posts), Sat May 08, 2004 03:21 pm
I don't mean to complain, I mean it's really my fault for the way my DH acts. I should be a slug and just not do anything but because I get up and take care of things, he thinks everything is fine so he doesn't help out even more. I have lots of family here, unfortunately, they are all working or in school and can't help out. Besides, who would want to help watch 3 kids under 4? We just moved here a couple of months ago so I don't know anyone and I've only been to church twice so they really aren't much help either. On top of that, I'd be so embarrassed for anyone to come and help me. My house is such a mess. I know for all of it's understandable but for anyone who hasn't been put on bedrest, they just can't see why my house is such a pig sty.
Good news is, I'm 28 weeks today. I'm sure I'll be fine. Just understand if I come on here and complain a lot. Other than lots of swelling, things are looking up. Blood pressures are pretty stable at 130/80.
Mom to Audri 4,
Ezra 2 1/2,
and #4 EDD 8/1/04
born at 35, 29 and 31 weeks due to Pre-e/HELLP