It's different when you know what could be coming

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Re: It's different when you know what could be coming

Postby bsherricca » Wed Nov 27, 2013 10:05 am

i think at a minimum a consult with a high risk doc will give you some peace of mind ...2 hrs is a long drive but if it puts you at ease in terms of your numbers and where you are in your pregnancy that alone will be worth it ...

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Re: It's different when you know what could be coming

Postby kaxy » Tue Nov 26, 2013 11:32 am

I think it's worth getting a high-risk consult, maybe someone who can work over the phone with your hometown doc? Going to a specialist for EVERY appointment might be a bit much given the distance (I don't know though). I do think getting a specialist's opinion in on the matter and how to handle your case would be worthwhile.

does hometown doc want you to get to a certain point and induce? Or a certain level of bad BP/other symptoms or something?

I *think* chronic hypertensives such as yourselves fare a little better but I could be mistaken. I forget the thread on here about that.
DS born Dec. 2008 at 38.5w gestation. Mild PE diagnosed 3 hours before he was born
DD born Dec. 2010 at 40w1d. BP was slightly elevated since 37w, and climbed while in labor (started on my own). Severe PE diagnosed hours after DD born.
DD born Sept. 2013 at 38w. Induced (and I had to fight for it!) due to high blood pressure. No protein, but had brisk reflexes and clonus after delivery. Doc gave me a mild preeclampsia diagnosis anyway and said I'm likely to be a chronic hypertensive later in life.

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Re: It's different when you know what could be coming

Postby whereowhere » Tue Nov 26, 2013 09:43 am

Well I can't say I have similar numbers to you, but I was also an older mom (40) and I think it's important to see high risk docs having had pre-e. I would definitely drive the 2 hours to see a specialist if I were you. But this is coming from me who was given a 60% chance of recurrence. I never got pre-e, but I am from a small town five hours from a NICU. I relocated to the city for the last 3 months of my pregnancy to be near high risk docs and NICU because when I delivered and lost my twins the plan was to fly me to the city for the best care, and could not get out due to a freak snowstorm. They would not have made it even in a big city hospital being born at 21 weeks, but I knew I was taking no chances the next time. Your risk of recurrence is probably less than mine since yours was at 36 weeks, but I think with your BP I would at least make a trip to a specialist to get checked out. You may not have it at all or you may have a mild case of it, but I would NOT put things in the hands of a hometown doc if I were you. I believe in better safe than sorry. Let us know how it goes for you...
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Lost my beautiful boy & girl twins at 21 weeks to severe preeclampsia-2012
Mommy & Daddy will love you forever my sweet babies!

Delivered a healthy baby girl at exactly 37 weeks, planned c-section due to prior fibroid surgery, pre-e free! Had some hypertension post-partum but resolved with BP meds.

Pregnant again, baby boy due Sept 8, planned c-section in mid-August 2016. So far so good.

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It's different when you know what could be coming

Postby lizzellen » Mon Nov 25, 2013 10:15 am

Returning here after a long hiatus and looking for some support/advice. I'm the mom of a healthy 5-year-old girl, induced at 36 weeks due to PE. We're pregnant again and I'm at 21 weeks. Excited to be this far along but also waiting for the other shoe to drop. I was living in a large city when I had my daughter and was seeing a high-risk specialist who took a very cautious approach and monitored me very closely (BP soared early on and BMI at 32). This time, we're living in a very small town, two hour drive to specialists and even a NICU. I am now of advanced material age (36) and BMI is higher this time at 36 (sigh).

So in many ways, it's a different ballgame. My doctor seems unconcerned about everything. My BP has been about 145/95 consistently, even on 750 mg of methyldopa daily (I was hypertensive before getting pregnant so not sure if this is due to baby or not). In the first trimester, I did a 24-hour protein, and it was 300 (already!). The lab sheet said normal is below 200. I called in tears and in a panic, and the doc basically said that it's not uncommon for pregnant women to have protein in their urine and that this is normal for me.

I'm so torn. A part of me feels like what's going to happen is going to happen. Can our doctors really do anything to slow down this disease process, or are they just really good at measuring everything and telling you it's coming or is here? Do you think I should be driving two hours to see a specialist? Or do you think I should just put things in the hands of the hometown doc?

As an aside, several of my friends are pregnant right now, some for the first time, others on two or three, but none with complicated pregnancies. I feel so out of place when I talk to them. I don't want to scare anyone, and while I am super excited to be expecting, I'm also so worried about all of the things that can go wrong. I keep thinking that if I can at least make it nine more weeks, this kiddo will be able to make it (even if we have to make the haul to a NICU).

Oh, well. I know many have much worse burdens to carry.

I'd like to hear from anyone who has similar numbers to me at this point and how things turned out. Also, I should note all the genetic tests have been coming back great. I have my big anatomy scan on Dec. 5 and should have a sense then of how baby is growing and the sex.

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