Somewhat related to my last post on challenging the drs...
I'm wrestling a bit with deciding where the line is betwen paranoia and valid concern. From the feedback I've received from my first post, combined with reading many (perhaps too many) of the posts and stories on this site I am starting to become more concerned. I suppose this is good in that it keeps me checking BP twice a day, even when less convenient and nothing seems to be changing much - but it is also making me want to question our OB why not this or that course of action - even though the only thing that has really changed since our last appt is my discovery of this site and getting a bit more info (good and bad).
I also don't want my paranoia to infect my wife (I can deal with the stress myself, but I don't want to add it to hers). We are a good team - our relationship is very strong so she already has picked up on my heightened concerns.
Seems that maybe I've gotten just enough knowledge to be dangerous...
Hindsight will make it all much clearer once everything is behind us - but of course it's too late then to affect any change.
Thoughts? other dads out there reading this forum have suggestions on dealing with this?
Thanks in advance for your comments and support!