This is my first post here, and I am really anxious about some recent developments. I which I would have known about this site when my daughter was born, but now I think I may need some advice for our second. First a bit about us.
My wife, Julie, had PE with our first daughter, Isabel, July 29, 2004: Due date was August 28th. Her BP's in the hospital were about 145/95. Her 24hr urine had more than trace amounts of protein, she was a bit edemic, and a sonogram showed that Isabel was about a week behind. All of this happened in about one week. Her weight was the most obvious 6 lbs. in 8 days. She was induced, was allergic to the drug that softens/dilate the cervix) then the petosin. 22hrs of watching the little needle go straight up and straight down(with no breaks between contractions) as her uterus spasmed from cervix softening drug was truly the worst; I felt helpless. At that stage she had only
dilated to I believe 2-3mmm, so they decided to break her water. It was like a switch going off, and she went into immediate labor. They then had a hard time determining her bp from the baby's and they brought in the internal fetal monitor, and then the vacuum. I am sure you know all of this from her medical record, but what is not on there is the really awful memory for Julie of the magnesium, which she had to have put in three or four different times because her veins collapsed, snaked. She was so incredibly uncomfortable. The IV became very sentitive and she was in pain every time it moved. Everytime Julie takes her blood pressure now, it is almost as though she re-lives it, but this time she feels like it is starting earlierand it makes both of us really worry for our baby's health as well as her's.Everything was fine in the end Isabel,(4lbs 12 oz) with great 1 and 5 min APGAR scores.
Julie is pregnant again, due May 3rd. This pregnancy has been great. No morning sickness, no edema, no rapid weight gain, no blurred vision, no headaches, no protein in the urine, nothing like before until two days ago. She did a 24hr urine test early in the pregnancy so we would have a baseline to compare if symptoms surfaced; it came back at like 102 or something. Her BP is always really high at the doctor’s office (white Coat syndrome) For example, her BP was 108/72 on March 12 and then 144/82 at the Doctors. Later that night we took it again and it was 109/74. Both the doctors and Julie and I always just attribute that to her psychosomatic reaction to the doctor, and the doctors have always looked over our home readings and been pleased with her BP. Her BP which had been routinely 110-115/67-75 has now risen to the high 130’s a few over 140, and between 85-94 diastolic. We have never had either number remain either over 140 or 90 in two readings over a 6hr period and she feels great with no other symptoms of PE.
The problem is that my wife is reluctant to go in to the doctor immediately because the last time she did, they induced labor within 24 hours or so. Currently, she is in the beginning of her 34th week, and given her (White Coat Terror), she and I are nervous about going in, because her BP will probably be in the scary high 160/110 range. Tonight her BP was 133/89 after resting on her left side for about 1.5 hrs. We are going in to the doctor tomorrow, and I really need to know what to expect. I also want to know what I need to demand for her safety and our son. Julie wants to deliver at 37 weeks at the earliest. Can they treat her BP with meds? If so, which ones and in what dosages? Bed rest in the other forums has been touted as a beneficial and one expert suggested that it increased the rate of morbidity in PE pregnancies. Any advice would be great.

