We used to golf together (before baby) but we don't play a lot of sports together for that competitive reason- we're great cheerleaders to eachother, and that's where it stops.
Our "long term" grow old together activity is our cabin project. We just like to go somewhere and "be"- reading, hanging out, cooking nice neals, watching the fire. Stuff like that keeps us going- even if we have to do it indoors at our own house for now.
I'm going to sound sooooo ancient- but you two sound like you are very bright- so how about learing to play bridge? It's a FANTASTIC "couples" activity, you can meet other couples, it's the most complicated, intricate card game there is (only game that can not be solved by a computer) and it requires that you AND your DH communicate well (using "bridge speak" that is).
Sigh. I wish more "youngins" knew how to play!
Jessica- High Altitude Mama & Colorado Co-Coordinator
DD Katherine Grace-10-13-2003
34weeks,6days,39minutes Preeclampsia at 5,340 feet
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