I am 41, soon to be 42. We are TTC. No luck, thought I was a few times, but didn't happen. It has been 2 years since I had PE. We got the Greenlight from the Dr(s). but have not had any luck. I know we may need to face reality that it will not happen. WE do not want to do IVF. I just can't begin the adoption process unless we have made a decision to stop trying. I know we should do some preliminary paperwork, etc.
You are not the only 40+ person!
Good luck to you!