I just wanted to jump in, as I have a little Parker of my own, who spent a month in the NICU after being born at 33 wks and 3lbs. The NICU is a scary place, but it will also become a special place if you and your wife let it. I spent 8+ hours a day there with my little one and I actually have some great memories and friends I made there. Don't be afraid to ask questions, insist on speaking to the Dr.'s, make friends with the nurses, reach out to the other parents, and make sure you and your wife are resting enough, eating well, and taking breaks when you need them. Good Luck with your Parker, it's a good strong name!
P.S. My little Parker is a not so little 9 months old, and weighs in around 18 lbs., and kept me up from 4am until my alarm went off at 5:15 AM, when he promptly fell back to sleep! Enjoy your baby!
Parker 7/6/03(severe pe)33wks