I am so sorry that you went through all of that pain! You know, I think everything happens for a reason. Obviously you can't go the IUD route again, so you are without BC right now. Maybe this is your sign to go for number 4? I had to stop BC pills not too long ago because they found out about my sister's blood clotting issues and then my pcp tested me and found out that I have them, too, so he said I had to stop BC pills immediately since they can cause blood clots. So I called my OB to see if I could talk to her about getting an IUD, and found out that she was out of town for three months. I decided to wait until she got back. I have PCOS and it took almost a year to get pg with Hannah, so I figured there was no way I would get pg within those three months. Boy, was I wrong! It was a shock, but we are thrilled to be expecting #2. Having another baby is something that only you and your hubby can decide. Good luck with your decision and I hope you feel beter soon!