Thanks for the responses, everyone. I keep having these "how ironic" thoughts, and there really isn't anyone else to share them with!!
I like the "risking your life to climb Mt. Everest and not even geting a baby out of it" analogy. Going to remember that.
Wishing baby dust to everyone!
~Sandy/DD born via emergency C at 35 wks/1 day June '03 due to Severe PE/class III HELLP
Risk factors: HBP/asthma/high cholesterol
currently TTC for #2