With the others, I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Shane. My heart goes out to you.
I'm not sure there really is a "time frame" for the right time to conceive. Different doctors will tell you different things, as you can see from Julie. But please find one, a high-risk OB/perinatologist who you are very comfortable with and trust. Someone who is extremely knowledgeable and who will listen and answer all of your questions. They're out there, Heather. My sincerest hope is that you'll find the right one for you. Also, it's up to you when you feel you're ready to conceive.
As you go through this process, please let us help you hold on to your hopes, and give you support and be your sounding board.
Norlisa Keffer(35), Washington State Coordinator / Moderator, Mothers of Multiples / Co-Moderator, Trying to Conceive
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