Our stories are similar, I developed severe pe at 26+4 and had c-section at 27wks. Ellie also passed away due to NEC.
I had a follow up with my consultant 2 months post partum and he said he would be happy for us to try again once 6 months were up. Ellie would have been 1yr old on 24 July, we have only just started to feel comfortable with trying again. I have asked for a pre-conception check. I was told last year that I would be on baby aspirin from as soon as pregnancy confirmed, and that I would be seen weekly, alternate weeks by high risk unit at hospital, or midwife at local surgery. This is not the hospital that dealt with my antenatal care with Ellie....she was born in a different area as I had changed doctors on the day I was diagnosed!
DD Eleanor Susan (Ellie)
born at 27wks severe PE
24 July 03 - 20 August 03