Thank you for all of the replies, well wishes, and hope.
My appointment is tomorrow afternoon at 330 and I am getting more and more nervous!! The day after Gracie passed I was still in the hospital (c-sect recovery) and the MFM who saw me towards the end of my pregnancy came to my room to offer his condolences and we talked for a while. One of the first things he said was "There is nothing preventing you from getting pregnant again" and it was such a ray of light to me at the time. I had my 6 week postpartum with him and he talked more in depth with me about it and again told me that I could try again, after I allowed a year for recovery.
I loved that doctor. Hubs and I seriously contemplated not moving out to Hawaii just so he could be our MFM again in a subsequent pregnancy.. lol. Good thing we did anyway, because shortly after I got here I received a letter saying he left that practice.
Here's a list of what I have so far, please let me know if there's anything you asked at your appointments that you think I should add:Her thoughts on what happened with Gracie (I'm not sure if my old hospital set my records over, but I will write out a quick summary of the events leading up to the end, just in case)
Whether TTC is an option or not
Her experience with early onset/severe pre-e/HELLP patients
What my care would consist of during pregnancy (MFM visits? OB visits? frequency?)
TTC prep (LDA? more weight loss?)
Diet prior to conception and during
Clomid (could it have affected anything? would a natural conception be better? TWINS?)
Supplementation during (extra folic acid? LDA? vitamin D?)
Julija, I typed my questions out and then searched the forum and found a thread that Christa started where you posted all of your consult questions. I had almost all of them except for the European approach.
I wonder if I read it previously and just remembered it? Or maybe I've read enough "what should I ask my MFM" threads to remember...
OK so after yoga and a trip to the beach, I will check the forums one more time tomorrow and add any questions you guys can think of. Thanks for your help!