I just wanted to chime in that I think it's completely normal to be thinking about this, even when you know its not going to happen for awhile. I felt some pressure by that two-year theory. I always felt that I wanted to have another child, but I couldn't imagine how I would be able to do it, even up to the point when Daniel was 2. Then this magical thing happened and he became so self-sufficient! We tried again when he was about 2 1/2, and all is well at 33 weeks!
Miscarriage Feb 05 & Dec 07
Daniel born Feb 09 at 27w5d, 1 lb 1 oz/12 inches (severe IUGR) due to Severe Pre-E & HELLP. Now tall for age and no complications.
Diagnosed with MTHFR
Cornual Ectopic miscarriage Mar 11
Natalie born 6-5-12 at full term, 7 lb 11 oz & 21.5 inches, progesterone 2-8 weeks (for suspected luteal phase defect), lovenox 6-29 weeks, lda 0-36 weeks, folic.