well it worked and then my body failed me

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well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby shelbys mom » Tue Aug 31, 2004 07:17 pm

Well apparently I was about 5 weeks pg, and I miscarried, John and I have been under alot of stress, he is in some big trouble at work, and they may fire him, he ended up in a post traumatic stress rehab therapy place due to PTSD from the war, and a police related shooting he was in, so that left me to move him out of his apartment as we bought a house to move in together into, luggin all that stuff down three flights of stairs did me no good, but I had no signs I was pg, so I never even thought of it, I jsut figured the stress of what he was dealing with along with me, made my monthly friend a little late, I am doing okay with it, and the doc said I could start to try again as soon as I am ready too. I know you guys understand and I appreciate that, thanks fgor listening.

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby julie f » Tue Aug 31, 2004 07:20 pm

Oh Kim, I'm so sorry to hear this.

I'm sorry to hear of all the stress yall are under right now but please know that miscarrying wasn't caused by anything that you did, it's not your fault.

Sending you hugs and prayers,

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby angelkat » Tue Aug 31, 2004 08:32 pm

Kim,
Sending you HUGE HUGS.... I'm so sadden to hear this....

Saying an extra prayer for you and your family

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby 5thtymachrm » Tue Aug 31, 2004 08:49 pm

{{{{HUGE HUGS}}}}}}

I am so sorry- it is nothing that you did!!!!

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby arj » Tue Aug 31, 2004 11:14 pm

Kim,
Really, really sorry to hear this. I hope that you and John are hanging in there during this really tough time. My hubby had a bit of PTSD from the war as well, so I feel for you (and him). Hang in there.

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby kylesmom » Wed Sep 01, 2004 06:06 am

Kim- I am so sorry to hear all that... I am sending you an email.

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby denise » Wed Sep 01, 2004 06:14 am

Sorry to hear this. My heart sank as I read your title. {{{HUGS}}}

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby megansmom » Wed Sep 01, 2004 07:46 am

Kim, I am so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of thoughts, prayers, and huge hugs your way!!!!

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby ann marie » Wed Sep 01, 2004 08:06 am

Kim,

So sorry to hear of your loss and all that is going on right now. Hugs,

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Re : well it worked and then my body failed me

Postby shelbys mom » Wed Sep 01, 2004 08:07 am

Thanks everyone, the doc has given the go ahead when we are ready, so we will try again, thanks so much for your kind words, it means so much to go someplace that understands so well. John is doing better and getting the help he needs right now too, this war is really taking a toll on all of us.

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