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Postby annegarrett » Thu Jul 08, 2004 11:39 am

by annegarrett (2525 Posts), Thu Jul 08, 2004 11:39 am

Feleshia, we're so sorry for your loss and thought you deserved your very own thread! Best wishes...
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Postby babygirl79714 » Tue Jul 13, 2004 08:45 pm

by babygirl79714 (1 Posts), Tue Jul 13, 2004 08:45 pm

hi, my name is feleshia and i am 23 years old and i have a 5 year old son that has had 6 open heart surgeries and a stroke. i was scared to have anymore kids because of this but back in march i found out that i was pregnant with twins. god i was so happy so on june 23,04 i went for one of my ob visits and found out that i had gained 15 pounds in 2 weeks and my blood pressure was really high and this was at 21 weeks so my dr. put me in the hospital for 24 hours to run test. that next day he told me that i had to stay in the hospital because i had protein in my urine. i stayed in the hospital from the 22nd of june intil the 5th of july..On the 2nd of july the worst thing happened to me they came in and told me that i needed to deliver i couldn't believe what i was hearing i hoped and prayed that everything would be ok but it wasn't i lost my twin boys...still to this day i cry every day and i blame myself...so i just wanted to let you know to keep praying and i understand and if you need to talk my # is 432-523-2491..i still have kidney damage and am on high blood pressure medication....may god bless you

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Postby ann marie » Wed Jul 14, 2004 04:28 am

by ann marie (1034 Posts), Wed Jul 14, 2004 04:28 am

Felisha,

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your boys. I cannot imagine what you are going through. There are many women on this board who have lost children to this vicious disease. I'm sure you will be hearing from them soon. Hugs to you,

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Re : Feleshia, a thread for you...

Postby josiah1112 » Wed Jul 14, 2004 05:22 am

by josiah1112 (1368 Posts), Wed Jul 14, 2004 05:22 am

Feleshia,

I am SO sorry about your twins. It has all
been so recent for you. Please feel free to
post here whenever you feel the need.
Unfortunately, there are plenty of us who
understand here. I too lost my baby in
December to pre eclampsia. My life has
never quite been the same...Take Care of
yourself and I hope you are feeling physically
better.

Gloria mom to Josiah 11/12/03- 12/4/03 @ 26wks pre e
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Re : Feleshia, a thread for you...

Postby angelkat » Wed Jul 14, 2004 06:19 am

by angelkat (3423 Posts), Wed Jul 14, 2004 06:19 am

I'm so sorry for your loss, I sent you an e-mail.....

Know that you will find the support and understanding that helps along with the griefing process
from us....

My prayers for comfort and peace are with you....

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Re : Feleshia, a thread for you...

Postby amjeang » Wed Jul 14, 2004 07:13 am

by amjeang (142 Posts), Wed Jul 14, 2004 07:13 am

Fleshia,

God bless you and your son! Welcome to the forum. We are all here for you.
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Re : Feleshia, a thread for you...

Postby suetorr » Wed Jul 14, 2004 08:23 am

by suetorr (29 Posts), Wed Jul 14, 2004 08:23 am

Feleshia,

Welcome you will find lots of support here, I am also a new member and I feel I will be a member for life. The women here help you cope and answer lots of your questions. I am truly sorry for your loss you are in my prayers. God bless you and your son.

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Re : Feleshia, a thread for you...

Postby 5thtymachrm » Wed Jul 14, 2004 10:28 am

by 5thtymachrm (909 Posts), Wed Jul 14, 2004 10:28 am

Welcome,
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. my heart goes out to you along with my prayers. You have come to the right place for support where there are many people who can understand the pain you are going through. Please come back to chat about how you are doing anytime, we are all here for you.
take care,

Elizabeth

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ttc #2 is a go!
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Re : Feleshia, a thread for you...

Postby for faith » Wed Jul 14, 2004 02:48 pm

by for faith (1749 Posts), Wed Jul 14, 2004 02:48 pm

Feleshia - I am so sorry for your loss of your twins and your sons medical problems. I lost my daughter in January, she was born at 30 weeks due to PE and passed 25 days later. Let us know how you are doing, I am praying for your son and for peace for you.

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Tyler - 4 (36 wks, PIH)
Angel baby - 1/20/03 (11 wks)
Faith Kristine - 1/5/04-1/30/04 (30 weeks due to severe PE, passed due to NEC & Sepsis(preemie complications))

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Re : Feleshia, a thread for you...

Postby kdreher » Thu Jul 15, 2004 10:53 am

by kdreher (2482 Posts), Thu Jul 15, 2004 10:53 am

Oh dear Felisha,
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. The pain is undescribable, and sadly, many of us here know that pain all to well. It is not your fault, please do not own the blame. We all wish we could be happy, healthy moms but we can't. I lost my son in 1995 and 9 years later I still feel the pain. A mother always will. Try to be strong for your child now and know you did the best you could. Our bodies are so very fragile, many just don't know it. Take Care.


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