Ok, Probably coming across as the overprotective father etc but I have been reading this forum for a few hours and am becoming more and more worried, not only about the future health of my wife and baby but what I can do...
My wife is 25 weeks pregnant (with our first) and she made a routine visit to the midwife today (which is the first appointment I've not been at her with). Anyway, to cut a long story short the midwife diagnosed her as a possible early onset of pre-eclampsia due to high protein level in her urine, high blood pressure and sever swelling in her ankles. My wife seemed quite calm about i, maybe due to the fact that she has heard of other people who have had it, and ignorance as well I suppose. The midwife has arranged another appoinment for 6 days time to check that protein level is not due to fighting an infection in her system, and to check all her other statistics.
Coming home today, I decided to do a bit of research and was comforted to read that up to 8% of pregnant women suffer from PE. If its that common theres nothing to really worry about with the right precautions I thought. (safety in numbers etc)
But after reading these forums, a lot of her other peculiarities / symptom shes been feeling recently could have more serious consequences. In the past couple of days she has been complaining of a pain in her ribs. She said it was probably just the baby kicking into them so I thought no more of it. Shes always had back pain due to the fact she broke her cocsis (sp?) when she was young.
My questions really are. Should I be more worried? Is it likely she'll have an abnormal birth (ie not last her full term / c section etc)? What more can I do? She is due to work up until week 35. Should I plan for her to finish earlier?
My plan so far includes.
1. Buy a BP monitor to chart her BP over the next week and beyond.
2. No more driving in case she starts to feel dizzy or unwell etc.
3. Rest and sleep as much as possible.
I know to ask the questions about her medical care (ie specialist in high-risk etc) but aside from that I feel all a little helpless. Plus I dont know how much to tell her before next week. I'm always the one who researches these things and fills her in but I dont want to worry her when there's nothing else she can do, pushing her BP higher.
Many thanks in advance
Chris
