So due to the holidays last year I had Cara's shower when I was 29 weeks. I lost her a week later. I returned most things and actually took money I got and paid for medical bills/funeral etc...
So this time I am having my shower this weekend (yay) I will be a day shy of 30 weeks.
I have heard some remarks "I hope he enjoys the swing " (from Caras shower)
Also nothing is really bought off my registry.
Now I feel like people think I should not have a shower? I feel like I am being selfish having a shower now as no one seems to be talking or happy about it.
What am I supposed to do..."oh I didnt have a shower for carter just in case?" ugh