had my d&C :(

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had my d&C :(

Postby wrennie » Sun Apr 03, 2011 09:48 am

The surgery was easy and quick and i definitely worried and stressed more than i needed too. im sad about the whole thing, and nervous that it will happen again. But, it feels good to be able to move on again. Its way easier for me to deal with I think because of the loss with Elodie. In this case, no baby ever formed.So, if it had to be this way, this was the easiest way.

I am hoping to go on a vacation in July the month we can start again, i figure that and the Promise walk will help the time go by more quickly. here i am stuck in the dreaded wait again...:( at least its spring!
Carin (34)
Mommy to an angel, Elodie (November 2007 31 weeks stillborn due to placental abruption, PE/HELP) and to a miracle, Aylah (January 2009, PE with 9 weeks hospital bedrest)
m/c March 2011
Expecting number 3, a boy, late March 2012!
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Re: had my d&C :(

Postby l412angel » Sun Apr 03, 2011 10:10 am

:( hang in there...so sorry you had to go through that :(
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Re: had my d&C :(

Postby sam10 » Sun Apr 03, 2011 03:14 pm

I feel similarly. I had my D&E about a week ago. It is easier than losing a child; however, it is still sad and the dream of having a family with living children once again shattered. I was told that I should wait for two cycles and then we could try again.

Sending you hugs.
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Henry (1/1/2010-1/7/2010) - forever loved and missed; severe PE with Hellp; partial placental abruption, classical c-section at 25.6 weeks
Matilda (Nov. 2012, born at 35.4 weeks) - severe PE


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Re: had my d&C :(

Postby m » Sun Apr 03, 2011 04:16 pm

Even if a baby didn't form, it's still a sad loss - so sorry for you! Hopefully this spring and summer will bring you hope and a successful pregnancy.
DS 2/5/09 - 2/13/09; severe PE at 28 weeks
DD March 2010; PIH, preterm labor at 36 weeks, 10 days NICU
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Re: had my d&C :(

Postby wrennie » Sun Apr 03, 2011 07:31 pm

thanks ladies, i can always count on all of you to send me positive and kind words. I have to say I have looked at Aylah all weekend in awe, this just reminds me so much of what a HUGE blessing she is (not that id forget!). I took her to disney on ice today and we had so much fun, she is a doll. I am glad my weekend had a positive ending, thankful for that!
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Mommy to an angel, Elodie (November 2007 31 weeks stillborn due to placental abruption, PE/HELP) and to a miracle, Aylah (January 2009, PE with 9 weeks hospital bedrest)
m/c March 2011
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Re: had my d&C :(

Postby rosemary » Mon Apr 11, 2011 09:59 pm

Carin, sorry for the very late reply...just wanted you to know that you're in my thoughts. (((HUGS))) And please take it easy.
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Elliott 8/29/04 - lost at 20 weeks due to severe PE/HELLP
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