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Postby baby_thania » Sat Sep 17, 2011 00:54 am

by baby_thania (2 Posts), Sat Sep 17, 2011 00:54 am

hi all....i just lost my little angel 1 week ago....i dont know about pre eclamsia...friday i still meet my doctor,everything was normal,my pregnancy is 32 weeks,saturday i have an urine check,and doctor found that i have protein in my urine,so he ask to see me on monday...but sunday morning,i bleeding at 5 o'clock in the morning,my blood presure was 180/110....
8.30 i have my operation.....i was very happy,all my family is coming to see me,but i keep asking my husband,why i havent seen my baby yet....he said our angel was at baby room...
monday morning,my parent and my husband were gathered around me,my husband tell me the truth,our angel can't make it....she died just after delivered...
just only if i knew about this pre eklamsia a bit earlyer,maybe i still can see her smile....
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Re: New Loss

Postby blythe » Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:23 pm

by blythe (3060 Posts), Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:23 pm

I am so sorry for the death of your daughter. Sadly, many women here have had similar tragedies and understand exactly how you feel. I hope you will find some small comfort here.
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#1 7-18-03 - 5#8oz 37 weeks PE/PIH
#2 8-11-06 - 6#14oz 37 weeks PE/PIH
#3 9-10-09 - 5#10oz 37 weeks PE/PIH
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Re: New Loss

Postby baby_thania » Mon Sep 19, 2011 01:40 am

by baby_thania (2 Posts), Mon Sep 19, 2011 01:40 am

i hope every woman can know and learn about pre-eclamsia....dont be to late,like me.....
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Re: New Loss

Postby kerisue » Mon Sep 19, 2011 01:32 pm

by kerisue (623 Posts), Mon Sep 19, 2011 01:32 pm

It's a terrible tragedy what happened to your and your daughter, but don't blame yourself! Mostly likely, nothing could have prevented what happened, even if you had known earlier. Did you name her Thania? That's a pretty name. I'm so sorry that this terrible disease took her away from you. It took my daughter too.
Mama to Millie
born June 2010 @ 24 wks. gestation due to my severe PE and CHF
lived 25 days, loved and missed
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Re: New Loss

Postby rosemary » Mon Sep 19, 2011 09:22 pm

by rosemary (2360 Posts), Mon Sep 19, 2011 09:22 pm

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. PE is a horrible disease that has taken so much from so many. There is nothing you did to cause PE. Please try to be gentle with yourself. We are here to listen, so please feel free to post as often as you like, and share as much as you are comfortable with sharing. I wish you peace and healing.
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Momma to Kayleigh 8/25/88 - 36 weeks
Elliott 8/29/04 - lost at 20 weeks due to severe PE/HELLP
Proud Grandma to Max Allen 10/19/10.
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Re: New Loss

Postby brandi101 » Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:38 am

by brandi101 (158 Posts), Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:38 am

Im so sorry you are going through this. My daughter was also taken because of this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Dont hesitate to talk about this when you are ready but also allow yourself to grief. Dont blame yourself and remember it is ok to cry.
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angel lou born 11/11/05 healthy and full term
kayleigh michelle stillborn angel 8/31/09 1 pd 6 oz 10 inces long
briedon silas born 7/9/10 healthy induced at 38 weeks heprin baby allergy to lovenox
we all miss our baby girl
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Re: New Loss

Postby sam » Sat Oct 15, 2011 03:49 am

by sam (442 Posts), Sat Oct 15, 2011 03:49 am

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious daughter. Wishing you comfort, peace and light at this very sad and difficult time for you and your family. You can talk about her here as much as you like, as and when you need to. There are many wonderful listeners and supporters here who would like to help in any tiny way possible on this most horrible of life's journeys.
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Re: New Loss

Postby holly3372@msn.com » Sun Oct 16, 2011 06:24 pm

by holly3372@msn.com (478 Posts), Sun Oct 16, 2011 06:24 pm

I am so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. We here understand and sadly have been through this terrible loss. Pease reach out to people that will support you now and be easy with yourself. This was not your fault and you are not alone.
Benjamin Spider Reeves born 4-28-2010( 1lb 6oz 26 weeks to severe pre-e and Iugr) we lost you after 4 long months in the NICU. You fought so hard,and were so brave.Our first baby .We miss you everyday and love you forever xo

Expecting ,dreaming, and hoping for our baby Girl sometime in January 2013
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Re: New Loss

Postby Shannonlynn » Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:47 am

by Shannonlynn (102 Posts), Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:47 am

I am very sorry for the loss of your baby girl. Know all the women on the forum have the understanding of what PE and HELLP do. I wish we could all have the grief and loss these diseases create taken away. Please take care of yourself and know there was nothing you did that caused this to happen. (((HUGS)))
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born May 6, 2011, became an angel one hour later
Severe PE at 24 weeks to the day
Gavin Walden born 8-4-12,lovenox, folgard, lda, prenatals. PE and HELLP free.
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Re: New Loss

Postby gordmir » Fri Oct 28, 2011 08:25 am

by gordmir (1 Posts), Fri Oct 28, 2011 08:25 am

Dear Friend,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious daughter. I exactly know how you feel. When I read messages from sufferers, I can not stop crying....tears just come out of me...
I lost my baby boy at 35 weeks due to eclampsia (3 years ago, November 15 was the caesarea delivery due to high BP 216/126...and he was alive for 5 weeks....but he could not manage...)....I know how much you suffer now, but if I can somehow help you, I can tell you that I am a medical doctor, and besides I knew about preeclapmsia, I could not prevent it! My doctors could not do anything...I am wishing you comfort, peace and light at this very difficult times for you and your family. I know that there are a lot of people around the world who also know what are you talking about....unfortunately, sometimes things can not be prevented, even if we try hard! If there is anything we could all say as a relief....Wish you peace and strength...best wishes...
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