Is there possibly another MFM in your area? That seems out of character for an MFM. I would find out if there is another MFM in the office where the one you have already seen is, if so, see if you could see the other doctor. There is a website for finding MFMs-www.smfm.org. You might check it out for some assistance in location a new MFM. I understand your not wanting to work with someone who is not supportive. After having PE and HELLP, I most definitely wanted people in my corner who were going to give me the best support and care possible. And I feel I have that. My MFM is amazing and so is my OB.
Don't give up hope, just try to do some research and possibly move on. Or maybe the MFM was having bad day when you saw him last (although that is no excuse). And as for your husband, I think that comes with the territory,they have seen it first-hand and don't want things to happen to us. My husband was the same way. Keep us posted. Shannon
Shannonlynn-mommy to Frederick Otto "Fritzy"
born May 6, 2011, became an angel one hour later
Severe PE at 24 weeks to the day
Gavin Walden born 8-4-12,lovenox, folgard, lda, prenatals. PE and HELLP free.